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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend is always putting me down & hitting and slapping at me, is this considered abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I need some help. My boyfriend has always been playful in you know some harmless teasing and hitting me playfully type thing. But a month ago it started changing. He is still like this, however his motives have changed. The teasing has turned i...

What do I do? I've no idea how to flirt, and I've never felt like this in my whole life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Really think im losing the plot !!!!!Ive been married for over 20 years ,Last three years downhill but just grin and bare it .Ive never in 20 years been unfaithful ,Im not blowing my own trumpet but i am classed as attractive but im very low on ...

Should I marry someone with a huge butt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Should I marry someone that has a huge butt? She always complains abotu it but never does anythign about it. She eats crappy food that makes it bigger and hardly ever works out. Everythign else about her is perfect but I am embarassed by it. ...

He went too far or maybe comes off too strong? I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Seriously stuck. There's this guy who's been talking to me alot lately, just like 'hi' and the occasional flirting, i think he fancies me as he always asks if i've got a boyfriend and has commented on me being 'fit' and 'saucy minx'. He's also got ...

I mainly want to escape all this and have my friend back like it used to be but I don't see that happening.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5932 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Someone who is ment to be my best friend he's bisexual. About 6 months ago started speaking more and more to this lad. He eventually started coming out with us and it got to the stage where he would come out with us everytime we went out. My friend ...

I'm successful in every part of life except relationships, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Lots of my ex girlfriends and even women older then me that i dated, told me after 2-3 months of relationship that i'm not realy confident in me. And now i have this complexe every time.I think that they are wrong and i can prouve it, but every time ...

My parents are being extremely over protective!! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - hiya im 19 years old and the youngest in my family. my parents are extremely overprotective and they don't let me go out too much. i'm at a point where i dont keep in touch with too many people for fear they might ask me to come out and my parents ...

Found out recently my son isn't biologically mine.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Found out recently my son isn't biologically mine. I always sort of knew that all my kids weren't mine. Still a bit of a shock to know it for sure though. My ex still knows the other guy she was with at the time and it's been proven he's my lads ...

I feel my life is pointless, I'm in unrequitted loved, and I can't stop spending online... Help!

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26 September 2008 (M) - Hi Okay. The thing is, I'm not sure my life is going anywhere. I work about 20 hours a week at a store. I think I should go back to college and get an apprenticeship to become an electrician. I have no girlfriend (well a proper one anyway, I ha...

My boyfriend just got his fiend to rape me, what should I do? I cant leave him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just got his fiend to rape me, what should I do? I cant leave him....

How do I tell my father that I'm pregnant? He has absolutely zero empathy and worries more about money than anything else!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hello All, I would like some tips or advice on how to tell my father that I am pregnant. Here is a little info: I am 26 years old and in a stable relationship. I have told my mother, sister, brother, and all my friends. Everyone seems to be ex...

I keep finding myself at the bottom of the hierarchy at work over and over again! I'm tired of feeling like that 'worthless nothing'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling very confused right now and was hoping any of you out there who have been in a similar situation, could give me some advice. I'm 25 and have been working in various fulltime office jobs over the past 10 years. I have one of ...

I need to protect my son, and should I seek legal advice for our future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I feel so weak, i need to protect my son. I live with my partner of 4 years and my 9 year old son from a previous marraige. Last night my partner prevented my son from using the toilet for 10 minutes because he was on the loo, then he had...

I've changed, but how can I convince him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5938 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to realise that I have changed for the better and that i will not treat him as poorly as I did?...

How can I forgive him for not understanding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - What do i do? My boyfriend and i split up a month ago. i care about him loads i do miss him n i miss what we had, but how can i forgive him for not understanding me? I went away for some time on my own, and he didnt understand it and we got into ...

Why is injustice allowed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - is this justice or what????sorry my question has got nothing to do with relationships..but, i just want to get this out of my chest! last year 2 of my cousins were driving around when they had an accident.the guy who hit them said that it was ...

Can steroids be the cause of me not getting a hard-on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I need litle bit advice. i cant get a hard on now. i use to be perfectly fine but then i was on steroids for a while for body building. since i have come off them i dont seem to get a hard on, i think its because of the steroids but i d...

Friends have told me about masturbating, but I want to be a virgin, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 12 years old and i want 2 have sex but my friends have told me about masterbating what should i do? p.s. (im realy horny but i want 2 b a virgin please help me)...

I'm really confused by his behaviour and I don't know what to make of it!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...