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Big Questions: Help and advice

We want so much to be together. We can live in Turkey, but I want us to live here, in the UK. Please can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i was living in usa with my turkish boyfriend and we apply for a english visa, but he got refused by the english embassy from there. what is the chance of him getting one from turkey now they have stamp his passport ? we need to know what we can ...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

I think I’m a stalker..and my teacher has become my latest obsession. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love with this teacher since June 2007, she is beautiful(age 25 this year) . And she left at the end of june 2007 to a different school to teach. And i still really really miss her :( and i haven’t seen her since. I think about her ...

I've tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am 21, I met this guy when i was 20 and been in love with him ever since. problem is hes got a girlfriend he told me that he liked me sooo much and he wished things wre different. i have tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seem...

Are we 'tying the knot' too young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years now, and i know in my heart i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and he feels the same since he wants to get married and have a child. i want that as well but im 19 and he's 21 but my mother is r...

How do I get past these feelings of inadequecy, beating up on myself, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am confused. My husband and I have been married for 2 months, and dated for about a year. Sometimes I'll tease him and not make love to him and other times I will make love to him. Thursday night, I kept delaying making love to him and my stomach ...

What are the early signs of an abusive man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i'm in this new relationship and i was wondering if you could tell me the warning signs of an abusive or controlling man. ...

How do I build my confidence back up so I don't always feel like I'm competing with the "hot babes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend knows i have an issue with porn, but i am working on becoming more open to it. he knows it has greatly affected my self-esteem and i feel very insecure and even jealous when a "hot blonde with huge boobs and a tiny waist" comes on TV ...

Is he gay? Sex with him isn't normal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i've been with my bf for a few months but i'm starting to wonder if he might be gay. He told me that he nearly once kissed a guy, also he says he has an arse obsession. He seems to enjoy sex but the only thing that makes him hard is if he touches ...

How do I improve the taste of my cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter....

Question for guys: Is it easier to stay married if you already know what's out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I’d like to know, what its like for guys who settled down and married after having a several different women in there beds? Is it easier knowing you got to have your wild days before making a lifetime commitment? What about guys who married thei...

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my ques...

What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job ...

How do you 'make out'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....

Anyone ever heard of these WTF US sex laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Crazy US Sex Laws... Ever heard of them or any others that are crazy like these. I find it hilarious!! 1. Oral sex is illegal in 18 states, including Arizona. 2. In Virginia, it is illegal to have sex with the lights on. 3. It is illegal ...

How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...

How can we be sure we're ready to move in together? It's a big step...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. (We've known each other for close to 5) And while we've gone through some sticky patches in our relationship, as all couples do, we have a pretty good relationship overall. We have our ups and ...

Do women kiss more passionately than men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ...

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I g...

Should I include my child in meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 years, I have a 5 year old daughter, and i have been dating this guy fr 4 months. We were talking about meeting his parents. He has met my daughter and spent time with us. She adores him! I know his parents are al...

Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend wants to be a writer when he finishes high school. He gave me a few pages to read and it was horrible. I let some of my friends read it too (without him knowing) and agree with me. He wants to know what I think, I just don't have the ...

How do you know when you should get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfried for 4 years and we live together. We have talked about getting married but it still has gone no where. I am 27 and he is 34 I feel like it is time that we move on to the next step in our relationship but now I really ...

I can't get over this one girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - i had a relationship of three years with a VERY attractive girl,although a loved her and i know she loved me we were going to have to have a long distance relationship and i felt all we had was a physical relationship..so i ended it.now i can see ...

My ex suffered a terrible tragedy. How do I support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5935 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My ex suffered a terrible tragedy and now I don't know what to do. My ex of 2 years decided to finally pick up his stuff the weekend before I move (I have been asking for 2 months, he lives 2 hours away and I am moving 1 hr further away). H...

What dress should I wear for homecoming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone i am 14 and i am a freshman in highschool or homecoming dance is in a few weeks i was wondering what kind of dress to wear i dont know if i should wear like a sundress or a fancy dress or what. (I have a dress from last year from my 8th ...

Why have I lost my sexual desire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - HI, I wonder if its sound familiar for anybody...I truly believe, that I love my wife, but I lost my sexual interest. I don't know what went wrong.But I don't feel excited about sex at all. Its very much out of character, as I used to be very int...

Any tips on how to deal with her? Everyone is uneasy and unsure of who she will go after next.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5933 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hoping the great aunts on this site can give insight. I work with a woman who I admire in many ways...she is extremely smart and has her phd. The issue is that we are all on eggshells around her as she seems to blow up at any opinion that anyo...

When's the earliest for me to tell from some sign that I could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been having unprotective sex once, twice, or more a day, for almost 3 months.. how many days is the earliest for me to tell from some sign that i could be pregnant? -Michelle...

Why are my orgasms not as powerful as they were when I was younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have found in recent years that my orgasms are very faint, and last only a second or 2. I remember when I was younger that orgasms were much stronger and I could feel them all down my legs. They were never longer than a few seconds though (exc...