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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Please help. I have a really strong ache in my stomach that wont ease no matter what I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - help! I'm in pain after I had fairly rough sex a couple of days ago, it didnt hurt at the time but gradually its increased. I thought it was cystitis, but it doesn't hurt when i go to the toilet, just a really strong ache in my stomach that won...

What do you do when you are 'bi' and like a 'straight' girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I like this girl who's straight and i'm bi. I told her i liked her and tried to be her friend, but she said i was weird and blocked me. I really want to just be friends with her, but i don't know. What i should do?...

I just want to know if he actually loved me, or was he playing me?

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19 September 2008 (F) - Did he really love me,? This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he ...

Did any of you girls find your prince charming after jerks like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy that I lost my virginity to for a couple of months. He told me that he was studying to be a lawyer and therefore too busy to have a serious relationship, but i foolishly kept sleeping with him hoping that he will change his ...

Is this normal behavour for a straight man in a woman's company?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - i was out with my boyfriend last week having a few drinks when a gay man sat down and started chatting to him. he then preceeded to rub his hands over my boyfriends face and through his hair and admired his voice. the gay was asked to stop, but my b...

Sometimes I feel my house is invaded, it's a really small place, so all I have is my room!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) - I have a very strong dislike for my sister's boyfriend, and I don't know what to do! They've been together for almost 4 months, of which he was away for two months working in another city. My parents dislike him also, but they're good at hiding i...

I feel like I'm crap at everything I do. Does anyone else ever feel like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi, im 25 and have a fairly comfortable life, nice parents and a wonderful boyfriend, so i feel stupid writing this, but i sometimes wonder what purpose i have in life. i mean im not particulary good at anything, i dont have a talent and even tho...

I have some trust issues, and I don't know if this is destroying my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hello, thanks in advance for reading my letter and I apologize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are extr...

I'm really worried about my girlfriend, she's just had an abortion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend had an abortion ten days ago. When she went to the clinic she kissed me and said it wasn't going to be a big deal, but ever since then she seems really depressed. I text her and she doesn't reply. I went to her house and she says she's ...

I can't even afford to eat a cookie, and he's brought up the subject of getting me plastic surgery for my stomach and breasts!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - My husband stood me up while i was in labor. I'm still really upset about it. When I was in the early stage of labor (when you're just waiting for the contractions to come closer together) my husband left me alone to go out drinking with his ...

How do I find out if this marriage was even really legal? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I was married a few years ago to a man that used me for his green card to be allowed to live in the country. I don't know where this man is at, and haven't had contact with him in over 8 years. How do i find out if this marriage was even real...

My husband's a miserable asshole who only discusses the prospect of us getting a threesome on, so he can boost his self esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband (we'll call him steve) for less than a year (we've been a couple for over 9 years) but i have been cheating on him with our good friend (we'll call him rick) for nearly a year and a half. Rick and his wife (cal...

I'm scared now of what else can come out of the woodwork. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - A couple of years ago my common law husband and I were not getting along very well. I confronted him about having an affair because he was very rude to me at times, slept in his truck one night instead of coming home, talked constantly about the ...

He want's to keep our relationship quiet because of our religions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - One of my friends told me that he fancied me and when I told him that I did fancy him too, he told me that nothing can happen between us because his family would not approve due to our different religions. He then says that this is not the reas...

He's got the biggest hold over me and my life, everything is about him. How will I ever get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I lied to my ex about being pregnant. Im not. He split with me 6 weeks ago, we were together a year. 2 weeks later he started seeing another girl.I was very hurt but I let him get on with it. The 3 weeks ago I heard that him and his new gf were ...

Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Ok, here's a great question, I think. Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women? For example, if 2 guys like the same gal and the one guy has sex with her, does he tell the other guy that the sex was great, or that it ...

Does a person's forehead change over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - A girl the other week said to me and i quote "my god you have a horribly massive forehead" lol. this took me by surprise and ever since i have been paranoid about it. subsequent comments have also been made so i looked at pictures of when i was 18 ...

Has anyone ever had a serious relationship develop from a one-night stand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I am just curious, has anyone ever had a serious relationship leading to love after a one night stand or sex the first night you've met them? Is it possible for him to respect you after you did the deed?...

I can't seem to find any girls who share my view on sex. Should I just give in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - It seems like every girl I meet is one of two categories: 1. Girls who are religious and want to save sex for marriage. 2. Girls who want to have sex right now. I'm in a conundrum because I don't want to have sex until I'm in a serious re...

I don't want anyone to know about my previous marriage...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Unfortunately, I will be getting a divorce soon. I've been married for almost 6 years and my family does not know about it. My family, being my parents and siblings. I wish to keep this confidential, especially to my future gf/fiance/wife. Is this ...

I'm stressing out and I feel like giving up. How much is too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Okay I am a 19 year old college student I was going to be in my junior year of school. But I had to drop out a semester because I could not afford it, I plan on going back next semester. I am so stress because I was looking for a job ever since I ...

The 'situation' that will dumbfound you!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I met a woman on an online dating site. She had just finished a 3 year relationship. This guy was verbally abusive and always wanted a 3some. She was very much against that. They subsequently got engaged and then he left her out of ...

How can I slim down my thighs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really conscious of my thighs and need some tipso n how to loose a bit of weight from them. I'm a size 8, fairly active woman - I do horse riding and walking, I don't carry a lot of weight and am happy with my body everywhere else apart ...