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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

Me, my wife and our girlfriend...happily ever after?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Okay, here is the situation. My wife of nearly ten years fell in love with a woman after a period of time, where it was mostly just playful and some physical stuff. It was not intended and I always thought my wife was bi curious, but she obvi...

Does anyone know what this discharge is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I am having this "jucky" discharge from my vagina, its red/dark red/brown thick discharge it doesnt smell and im not hurting. Does anyone have a clue of what it is? ...

Am I reading into things and seeing what I want to see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I need help figuring out if I have a shot with this girl. Here goes. I'm in First Year of uni and have a crush on a girl in my class. We've never actually had a proper conversation (mainly cos she makes me too nervous) but last week we encounte...

How much do I tell my four year old about the birds and the bees?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My daughter is 4 years old and starting pre-school this week. I was wondering what she should know about about the "birds and the bees" before she goes to school. I'm not sure what the age appropriate discussion would be. I've done some research ...

How do I find closure from a relationship that ended a decade ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi, It's been almost 10 years since my highschool sweetheart and I have broken up. I was 19 at the time and was deeply inlove with her. Perhaps I was inlove with her because of her looks, perhaps because I liked to have her around or whatev...

Have I been played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I was seeing an Army man for over a month when he was here locally for schooling. He had to go overseas to Germany to clear out and will return in Nov. I thought when he left we were on very good terms. He told me he would e-mail me and even call. ...

If you are happily married, how can you fall for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - How can a person be happily married, yet fall for someone else? If the person is happily married then they wouldn't have committed any acts to have fallen in love with someone other than their spouse to begin with, right?...

My boyfriend has a much lower sex drive than I do and I'm sexually frustrated. How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having trouble keeping our sex drives in sync. He says he is satisfied with sex 2 times a week whereas I would prefer 2 or 3 times a DAY if I could (well I wouldn't expect that but basically the more I can get, the happier I ...

He hates himself because he isn't female... how do I respond to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I know this guy who hates himself because he isnt of the female gender. He is always saying this and I have no idea how to respond to this. He is straight which makes this even weirder. He has practically no confidence either so this could be a ...

To guys who were accepted by their partners after more than one rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi there, I would like to know if there are any guys out there who have experienced more than one rejection by the same lady, and yet be accepted in the end? (In terms of confession) If that is so, how did you manage to muster the courage to ...

Single and losing hope. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I have been single for about the past 2 years and I hate every second of it. I have been rejected by at least 50 women and I am at my breaking point. I don't want to approach anyone anymore because I know that I will just be rejected. I can't ...

We have no sex life, and he talks to other girls online - is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over 2 years and our sex life is slowly dying. I recently caught him him talking to other girls online and ever since then we barley ever have any physical contact. He swears that nothing ever happend with ...

Worst birthday EVER! How can I lift my mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I had a totally awful birthday! For one, my grandma's brother died on Friday, and the funeral was today. But second... I love my "ex" more than anything. And we have had our issues, mostly because there's a lot he can't tolerate from the time ...

My partner says he is getting an urge to cheat - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My partner and I have been dating for some time now, and well everything has been great! we have fallen in love, talked about how we truly are soulmates and have decided we will get married. Well that was all in the plans, now my partner has ...

I'm in love with my transgendered FTM friend. How do I let him know I'm serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm really confused here and could use some advice. I've been friends with this guy. lets call him Alan. Fot about 6 months now. We met online. the thing is, he's trans-gendered female to male. I recently told him I have feelings for him,...

How can you tell when a girl wants to be hit on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - How do you tell when a woman wants to be hit on and when she wants to be left alone? I was trying to strike up a conversation with a girl at the store and after a couple minutes she said "Can't you see I'm busy!" I like hitting on girls but I don'...

I've recently noticed that some guys are attractive - am I gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Alright, I'm just an average 14 year old kid. I've always been sexually attracted to girls, I have "hooked up" with girls a few time which definitely turns me on and when I watch "videos" it is always just one girl or a guy and a girl. Just as ...