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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

If a woman asks a man for some space is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am a female who is 38 yrs old. I had recently been in a relationship with a 32 yr old man. We have only been together for a little over a month and told him I needed some space but my intension was not to completely break off the relationship, on ...

We kiss but she says we can't date, I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - There is this girl.She is older than me and I think we like each other because we eat together,study together,play together and it has even gone to the extent of kissing and romancing.The problem is that she say we cant date and i dont know why.I ...

His family's jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and very much in love with my 49 year boyfriend of a year. We've had a lot of ups and downs through having so much grief from everyone. He treats me like a princess and the only issue we have with our relationship is other people. Six mo...

Should I marry my student or just be his mother figure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am a 32 year old who's divorced recently. I teach. One boy who's 22 yrs old came to me as a student and in due course i started treating him like my son and he calls me mom. suddenly we ended up having physical relationship. now i am in fix as to ...

Why would she wish that I was two years older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - me and this girl are good friend tho shes 2 yrs older than me. we go to the same school so i see her every day (small school) but one day she started saying stuff about her wishing i was 2yrs older i was wondering wat she couldve met by that? and ...

Dilemma of liking a younger guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - OK i have the same dilemma as others who are in love with a younger guy or just really really like them. bare with me here, i have never liked a younger guy before. i have always gone for the older guys and i recently just got my heart broken by an ...

He has one set of rules for me and another for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I am in a troubled relationship. I am 27 years old and my boyfirend of 3 years is 42. Everything was great in the beginning of our relationship, but now as time goes on he is getting more jealous, i cannot talk to men i can only hang out with 2 ...

I got my man, but now I don't want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Im desperated for a man to make me feel better when I divorced my husband 4 years ago. I fancied this man 20 years older than me. He is very supportive throughout my divorce. I am so happy I am in love again. But now I find him less attractive ...

The ex girlfriend that says she's a friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin but here i go i have a wonderful amazing boyfriend that i have been with for seven months now. He loves and tells me he loves me, we have a big age difference i am eighteen and he's thirty three yeah i know right. S...

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...

I feel he is too old for me... should I end it with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my miser...

Forceful sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came ...

My son's coach doesn't reply to my texts. Is it because I'm older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: age posted is incorrect. Two questions combined into one.] i met this guy two months ago, at my son game, hes the coach, and little by little ive become interested in him. I told him that i though he was sexy and that i love his...

I cant find anyone my own age! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what I should do, she's 17 n i'm 22. Is that too much of a difference? So instead look what Ive done, I found a girl who's 31 :/ Is that too much of a difference?...

Does a "cougar woman" have more relationships than an older guy with a younger gal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Do ''cougar woman"" has less chance on the long run with a younger man, than an older man with a younger woman? Do they get hurt more at the end ?...

Age gap with problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 and am year 11 at school, i met this guy in year 9 (two years younger) about 3 months ago. over these 3 months we have got closer and closer, last month though i slept with another guy and this really made my close friend very angry although ...

I don't want to leave but I cant carry on like this! How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I've been with this man for four years after my divorce. Things go well until recent months he's always got pain and aches. He is near 70. Our sex life has gone downhill. He has tried his best to please me but the strength is just not there. Im ...

He is 17 I'm 13 and I really like him A LOT !!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Their is this 17 year old boy im 13 who is in my form because he is my mentor.. I really like him a lot, he looks at me and smiles and looks away and sometimes stares at me and when i notice, he looks away, then looks back when im not looking....

I've never had a partner question my love for them as often as she does! What do you guys think of the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Sooooo..... I love my girlfriend..a lot...we have been a couple for a year and a half and through this time have had a lot of ups and downs...we dated for 6 months and then moved in together...within he first few months of living together I realized...

He used to flirt with me all the time, but not recently. Should I tell him my thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I like this guy and i went working away for a few weeks recently.Before i went, we hadn't spoken for a while, i had also removed him from my friends list on facebook, but i dont know if he ahs noticed this.this was because this other woman kept ...

I'm scared to go against Indian society and marry a white man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 25 yrs old indian female. i was in a livin relation with a white man who is 17 years older than me for about 8 months and we didnt have any fights or arguments during that period of time. this was in USA and after completion of my studies i ...

Family or Lover? Torn between both.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have fallen in love with a married men. He isn't happy with his marriage and wants to end it but it's complicated. We want to be together more than anything, but our relationship wouldn't be accepted by most people, I'm 22 and he's 60. Oth...

Why would an attractive woman like that want such an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - A very pretty 37-year-old divorced woman with a 12-year-old daughter has indicated interest in me. However, I think that she is much more economically blessed, based on her home, and I'm a 62-year-old man, like 25-years her senior. Why would an...

How do inform my friends and family I'm living with a new man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 27 yrs old and I ended my 5 yr marriage 8 months ago. My family loved my ex husband and were upset that we're getting a divorce. We have 2 children a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old who live with me but he sees on weekends. We decided to end our ...

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one poin...

In love with my best friend and can't live without him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do....

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...

Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy ...

Are there any signs I can look out for to see if he still has feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ok, long story short, my sister met this bloke and him and his son came to live with her about a year or so ago. me and the son hit it off and ended up getting really close emotionally (amongst other things) no details. especially after...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not ...

Is being attracted to older men normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - my name is dan and i am seeing a guy who is 49 and im only 20 he is worried bout the age difference i am too but dnt tell him im worried about wat people will think of us also ive always been into older guys is that normal please help xxxxxxxx ...

Where do I go from here? I'm 30, she's 19 and her mum hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has ...

How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...

He acts like he is not interested, but his eyes say something different.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - How can I make him confess instead of using his boddy language although he knows that I am 9 yr elder than him.I know that he loves me too much but he avoids me and he tries to show to public that he even doesn't see me.He looks at me secretly and ...

I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...

Age difference a problem after 5 years :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 years my senior - I am 27 and he is 44. For most of our relationship this was never a problem, I never saw his age, only the person he is, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our differe...

My teacher wants me to spend time alone with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - my teacher whom i had a great respect on is now trying to get close to me he made me sit after classes alone with him and told me that he enjoyed a girl and he told me to stay after classes and talk freely. he doesn't do this to other girls and he i...

Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????...

He says he wants me, but then acts weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am confused. I am getting very mixed signals from someone I have known for a while but only a few weeks ago started sleeping with. It started with flirting, a kiss, a drive and then sex, more texting and ending up spending an amazing night in a ...

Should I have a child with a man 30 years my senior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 10 years older than me.He has grand children. Should. I have a baby with him, or its too weird?...

I keep dreaming of a man 23 years my senior!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - how much do dreams mean when it comes to terms of love? I keep dreaming that me and this guy are really close, like, cuddled up, I can feel his skin and his warmth in my dreams and I'm always dissapointed when I wake up. I do have sex dreams and I'm ...

Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter. We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a ...

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side...

I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any e...

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

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14 November 2009 (F) - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend ...

I need help on how to initiate sex and make him to want me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - hi im a 22year old female, im going out with a 34 year old male, iv always gone for older blokes, im a confident person, im a big girl, i always have been, problem is i dont have alot of confidence in the bedroom department. i dont 'dare' make the ...

My teacher keeps looking at me. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have this algebra teacher tht i rlly like. I feel shy around her. During the day, I always see her looking at me with this worried look on her face and when shes talking to me. Today i was the only one who stayed for extra help. While i ...

When I leave school should I tell my teacher I'm in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Now, im going to aplogise for poor spelling firstly (its late at night for me!!) and secondly I am sorry this is another teacher/student crappy topic!! Ok so lets set you the picture. I am over 18, and still stuck in sixth form (3rd year) I am ...