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writes:how much do dreams mean when it comes to terms of love? I keep dreaming that me and this guy are really close, like, cuddled up, I can feel his skin and his warmth in my dreams and I'm always dissapointed when I wake up. I do have sex dreams and I'm not sure how I feel about him, on one hand, I think I love him, and sometimes I'm not sure how I feel about him... When he does something I find annoying I will insist that I despise him for the rest of the day.What do you think?BTW we have an age difference of about 23 years so I don't think he'd like me or that anything will happen, but it's just that no-matter how I feel about him, I have very strong emotions either way. Reply to this Question
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I'd have to ask, who is this man to you? If he acts as a substitute father figure, then it's usually more about how he makes you feel as a person rather than a potential romantic interest! Have you been attracted to older men before? Or just this man? It could be just that you are attracted to him based on hormones, or you're seeing him as a potential mate (if he's a father, you like how he treats his family for instance), I'd go carefully if I were you, don't approach him in a romantic way, just be a friend. If something is meant to happen, I feel that it'll happen on its own. Good luck for the future!
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