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writes:Their is this 17 year old boy im 13 who is in my form because he is my mentor.. I really like him a lot, he looks at me and smiles and looks away and sometimes stares at me and when i notice, he looks away, then looks back when im not looking.. so one day i asked my best friend to click her pen everytime he looked at me just to see if it would work and she kept clicking and clicking and clicking her pen over and over again because he kept staring at me :) When I was going out with a boy who he didnt know or even met and didnt live in the same town as us he added him as a friend on facebook and had a go at him because he found out that he was being rude to me and called him a lot of rude names like a "twat, Wanker, Pansy" and was having a right go at him a lot.. after me and this boy broke up he was OK and he didnt contact him ever again NOW why would he care about this other boy unless he is jealous?? We have had funny and amazing conversations on facebook and msn.. but when it comes to talking to him at school he doesnt talk to me and I dont talk to him and i didnt know why until the other day when we were talking on the internet and I said "how come we can talk to each other on msn but not at school lol" and he said "its because im year 9 and he is year 13 and I'm talking to my friends and he is talking to his friends.. But what is that ment to mean?? And he has my number and I have his number too and we text a few times. I really like him a lot my mum and step-dad know him really well... Is he playing hard to get or does he not like me ???? AND I think he knows i Like him back but i dont understand why he is playing around and acting like he doesnt like me but makes me think he does?
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reader, Accountable +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Glad things worked out for you :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your comments most of you were right he was a stupid crush lol... i am alot happier with my new boyfriend who is my age thank you all again x,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): Even uf he genuinely does have feelings for you. Imagine how much pain he is in knowing this.1) It is illegal and he knows it. So to do anything would get him on the sex-offenders list at the very least.2) He may feel perverted for having feelings for someone so young. Though these days its very difficult to tell a girl's age just by looking.Look its perfectly fine for either of you to have feelings or crushes on each other or on anyone. But in this case it would be wrong, not to mention criminal to act on them at all.He knows this, believe me, he knows this.So if you care about him at all you'll leave him alone. And get on with your life.Flynn 24
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reader, Accountable +, writes (25 November 2009):
Hi, I don't want you to feel as though I'm being harsh, but I think in this situation you're seeing what you want to see.. it seems a lot like you're reading into little things he does way too much, and assuming he has feelings for you based on your interpretation of his actions. For example, him looking/smiling at you in class - he IS a mentor. I was a mentor a younger form group when I was in highschool, and you are told to be friendly and smile a lot at the class. That he only talks to you on msn and not in person is very telling - he is happier in the company of people his own age, who are in the same stage of life as he is, who he can relate to and identify with. 4 years means a lot when you're a teenager - trust me, I'm 17 and my 13 year old self feels like a distant past, and I'm sure when I'm 19 even my 17 year old self will seem the same. Its not anything personal, its just that you havent experienced what he has - you havent even started GCSEs but he's probably planning his university experience. I imagine he thinks youre a cool person, for a 13 year old, but doesnt think of you in a romantic way, or see you as a potential relationship prospect. Try to get him out of your head, and focus on somebody who you'll have more in common with - it will be difficult, but it'll be worth it :) good luck! xx
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reader, SV +, writes (25 November 2009):
This is just one of many crushes that you will have. Nothing more. He probably likes you as a friend so it's highly unlikely that it will become anything more. In the meantime look for boys your own age.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 November 2009):
The bottom line is you're really too young for him, and I think if he actually does fancy you, maybe he has some issues. (I don't mean that in a nasty way to you). I think for your own well being you'd be better off enjoying the crush you have on him, but staying away in general
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reader, QueenMarmite96 +, writes (25 November 2009):
hey! Im 13 too!
Age doesnt matter to me or my family. Its if you both feel for each other. Think of the film 'Grease'. Danny wants to look coool in front of his friends, Maybe this is the case. Talk to him on msn or facebook and say that you want to get to know him more in person. Maybe he just wants to be friends... but most of the time good friends do fall in love. If your mum and step dad know him well.. persuade them to have a party eg. New years eve and maybe invite him! This will give you a chance to get to know him without his macho friends around!
Good luck and I hope this helps!
Ps. Please rate my answer! x
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