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Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

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Question - (14 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter.

We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a month, but im really warmin to this guy.

My problem is shud i end it or carry on as we r and hope that i dont get hurt. i get a buzz frm the fact that no one knows about us. please help. thanx.

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A female reader, Accountable United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2009):

Accountable agony auntGenerally I'd say no, and that you should just see how things develope. But I would suggest you take your daughters feelings into consideration - how would she feel if she found out (and these things do get found out, sooner or later..) that you were having a sexual relationship with one of her friends?

If it wouldnt bother her at all, then fine, carry on by all means! good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009):

The answer is in your question. Enjoy it while it lasts, trying to stay cool and realistic about your age difference

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