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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Think I can't deal with this anymore but I also feel like a bad person if I leave someone with depression.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

31 May 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm just looking for advice. about 6 months ago I started dating a girl who is severely depressed. She takes medication so sometimes its not so bad. We get along well, although I feel like the connection isn't as deep as it could be as he always resorts to... (423 words)

Should I ask him to stop driving by?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

31 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Met a seemingly nice, older man at my church [60s]. He offered to help me with some yard work. He never accepted pay for it, but would make comments like, "I have a lot of women friends and I love to help them." I kept getting the feeling he was going to ask me out, but he ... (218 words)

Husbands weird behavior has me questioning what is going on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

30 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a mom to a 16-year-old daughter, soon to be 17 in a few weeks. But she's not the person I'm asking about. It's my husband. We decided to have a family day out, but it was also an opportunity to get my daughter some presents. Me and my daughter decided we'd do a... (498 words)

I don't love my husband like I used to

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

30 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I posted on DC some time back... I actually posted twice and I got a lot of advice. This is my first post: ________________________ .... so i've been married for over 7 years and I must say I love my husband very much. We've had our ups and downs but we've got ... (1621 words)

I am wondering if my husband is gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

30 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys. Been married for 10 years now. Have a 4-year-old son. Recently found out my husband had bought gifts for another guy and I'm wondering if he's gay based on that alone. The gifts were ostentatious ones; some expensive shirts from a high-end brand, cufflinks that c... (468 words)

We dated for 3 years live together and now he has confessed he is married and has a14 year old.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

30 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for 3 years now. We met early in the year 3 years ago in a local bar, I was with friends. He told me he was a businessman, I got to meet some of his friends. I'd also been to his house a few times. There were a few women's clothes about, but he... (1131 words)

I think boyfriend may be lying and cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

30 May 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am in a relationship with a guy for the last 1 year. He has been putting me through a lot anxiety. He has been behaving differently for quite some time now. I am always his second priority. His second plan. He goes out with his “friends” in the first half of the day and ... (505 words)

We broke up still have feelings for each other but now she wont meet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

29 May 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my gf after 7 years. We took a break and now she has confessed she still has feelings for me. I admitted the same and she said she wants to speak about us possibly getting back together. I said we need a catch up. However she has not asked me yet and it has b... (230 words)

Husband drinking way too much wine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

29 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. My husband is obsessive over wine. Really, really obsessive. He's drinking it at 8am in the morning with cereal, drunk it at 2pm with our son, and even bulk-buys wine. He's even got up in the night to drink wine. He'd also been seen in the neighborh... (901 words)

Older boyfriend seems insecure because I am younger. Is he sabotaging our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

28 May 2022 (F) age 41-50 - I have a problem. My partner is 15 years older than I am. I am not boasting but I am a very attractive, vivacious and in shape woman. I have had some issues with anxiety in the past but now with the proper medications and therapy, I have come a long, long way. I have honestly ... (1623 words)

Wife is transitioning into man. Would I be horrible to get divorced?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

28 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - First, I want to make it clear I have nothing against trans people. I believe they deserve the same rights and courtesies as all cis-trans people. If I use incorrect terminology I sincerely apologize as I have zero intention to offend trans people. That being said, I've been ... (973 words)

How on earth could I not be aware of this cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

28 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - hello there. I'm a mom to 5-year-old twins. I went away for a week for the first time since the pandemic on business; got a new job in the IRS, a career change for sure, but I'm qualified for that sort of thing. However, I came back and found out from my neighbor that ... (490 words)

Disney trip turned into disaster. Caught husband cheating with emploee

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

28 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I've come here since I'm not sure where is really an appropriate venue for things. I've just come back from a great vacation at Disney World my husband bought me as a late birthday present. Yes, we could have gone on my birthday but he got it for me for May 202... (907 words)

My parents wont accept the woman I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 933 days ago

28 May 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I INTRODUCED the woman I love to my parents but they won’t accept her because she is older than me and has an ex-fiance stalking her. I am 30, she is 42. I love her and the sex is amazing. Her fiance walked out on her a week before the wedding, got with another woman, t... (155 words)

My father has died and we feel we let him down

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

28 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My father has died in hospital aged 77. He went in with a foot that had blister that became black on his foot an narcrotic ulcer as he was diabetic. My family are in shock. We were expecting him to come out of the hospital. My mum told me he wasnt treated right in hospital... (503 words)

Is this something that he is going to regret when he gets older or is it okay for him to skip his prom like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

27 May 2022 (F)

age - Four years ago, my oldest son and his friends went to his prom and they had a great time. My youngest son's prom is next week and he is refusing to go. Instead, him and his friends are skipping prom together and are going bowling (about 10 friends). Afterwards, they... (147 words)

What are the pros and cons of living in London for 6 months as retirees?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

27 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. Been married for 23 years now. My husband told me he wants us to go and live in London for 6 months as that's the length of time we can stay in the UK on a tourist visa. He wants us to get a tourist visa, go there for 6 months and live like a local. He doesn't w... (504 words)

I have never been on a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 36-year-old man with Asperger's Syndrome. I've never been on a date in my life and that is the crux of the issue. I'm educated, I have interesting things to talk about, I keep myself fit (albeit in other ways than the gym) and am well-presented. The other way... (791 words)

I am confused about my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 937 days ago

27 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Been married for 3 months now. Had a nice Indian wedding. Not a big one, but just family and cousins. It happened not long after COVID restrictions ended. I'm 34 and he's 3 years older than me; we met via a speed-dating night for Indian people about 5 years ago. We had o... (676 words)

I want to help my son and don't know how

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 934 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - MY son has autism, hates his appearance and has never had a single proper friend. It is heartbreaking. He is 21, lovely and well-mannered but can’t stand the way he looks. He self-harms too. Only self-harming in the way of overeating. As it is , he keeps insisting he's not... (350 words)

How can I ever resolve this situation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - I received a big parcel this week which had my name on it and some woman's name was on it. I thought it was from my cousin since it had the same name, and yes, she had done this sort of thing before. But when I checked the handwriting after opening the parcel, it wasn't he... (299 words)

I have fallen for a man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - WHEN I tell my girlfriend I don’t love her, she says I just don’t try hard enough. The truth is I have fallen for another guy. I am 34 and live with my girlfriend, who is 31. We have a son and a daughter. We share a home but don’t have a sexual relationship now. My wif... (313 words)

Total stranger came up and said my wife was married to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife had our weekly date night, went to a restaurant we hadn't been to for ages. Nothing odd about that. We always have weekly date nights to stop things growing stale or too mundane. Well, in 3 weeks our 15th anniversary is coming up (of being together as a... (628 words)

My fiance is also engaged to a woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 934 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 8 years now. Well, 9 years actually since we met as friends in early 2013 at an event for gay men in our area. He's the same age as me. Different backgrounds, he's from a rich African-American family, I'm just a regular Canadian white gu... (684 words)

Older men. Daddy's

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

27 May 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - Do many girls /women like older men, what is it thats such an attraction?... (15 words)

Thinking about getting married at early 20s

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26 May 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been having thought of meeting a right guy to marry, immature i know but i would be off to the university next year after universities exams if i could be accepted as i am doing my senior certificate examination. i know that it is immature of me but doing my days in ... (154 words)

I want to invite my exs family to see our soon to be born baby but not my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

26 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 7 months pregnant , and due in August...My partner mid way just became irresponsible and a drunkard , so i ended the relationship. He tried contacting me but i blocked him. His a narcist in nature. I however i am in tough with his family and they are excited about the ... (136 words)

Disappointed in friends behavior

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

26 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my fault to a certain level but I feel disappointed in my friend and her boyfriend. A friend of mine (let’s call her Kate) last month did me a big favor (not financial). In order to thank her I told her I’d take out to dinner and pay - we agreed on a lovely ... (473 words)

My daughter doesn't like where we live

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

25 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - American expat in Germany here. My 15-year-old daughter really really hates it here, he's been here since she was 9. Keeps insisting she wants to go back to North Dakota where we're from. We live in a small town, but I work in a big city up the road, about 20 miles a... (348 words)

I need to talk to husband about a possible affair hes having

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

25 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a woman who's been married for 22 years to my husband. We have a grown-up daughter, who moved to Ohio with her boyfriend. She currently works in construction, earns a good living. It's my husband who's the big issue here. For the past few weeks, he's been co... (474 words)

Why has my partner changed so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

25 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm a newlywed guy in a state that allows same-sex marriage. Been married for just over 2 months now. However, I'm wondering what's gone wrong with my partner because of his attitude change. He's gone all pompous and acts pompous to everyone, be it shop... (410 words)

Why a guy would move in with his close friend jYust to provide emotional support

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

25 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Newlywed who's only been married for a month and got a problem I can't solve. My new husband moved out a week ago, and moved in with his friend. His friend's wife left him for another man and moved in with the other guy who she'd been dating despite the pandemic. He... (582 words)

Is 10 years too big of an age gap?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

25 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Is ten years a big age gap in a relationship. I am 34 and my bf is 24. Sometimes he worries what we'll look like together in the future. As it stands I don't look my age but I am extremely aware of my actual age. We get asked for id all the time and they are always shocked at ... (126 words)

Am I making too much of this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

25 May 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Just seeking thoughts as to whether Im overreacting to my current working situation. A week into my new job I have just found out that my boss,35,33 at the time, was charged and went to court because he was caught hiding in the cubicle of the female toilets of a nightclub ... (114 words)

I seen my ex's new partner cheating. Do I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

25 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've never done anything like this before. I find myself in an unbelievable situation, and I'm really looking for an unbiased point of view from people who don't know me. So, basically I was with my ex partner for as long as I can remember. I thought we were for forever... (285 words)

Wife admitted to cheating. Is our daughter really mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

25 May 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my wife for 26 years now. We first met in 1991 as friends, but didn't start dating until 1993. I was 24 at the time and she was 26 when we started dating, Within 2 years we were engaged and then she gave birth to our daughter. She was a 2... (743 words)

How to set boundaries with my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

25 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having a hard time with my mom over the last 7 years, basically ever since politics became particularly divisive. Over time, I have wanted to engage less and less around politics with her because I find it hard to know what she really thinks. I love her but think ... (305 words)

Husband nostalgic about lock down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

24 May 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there. Canadian who's been living in Australia for 18 years, married since 2007. For the past few weeks, my husband has been so obsessive and nostalgic over lockdown. It ended here in Australia in October 2021, well, here anyway. I was glad of it. I didn't enjo... (905 words)

I don't want to be an old dad

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

24 May 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - MY wife is 33 and desperate for a baby but I’m 52 and don’t want to be an old dad. Is there any way around this? We’ve been married for three years and while she’s at a great age to have a baby, I’d be better as a grandad than a dad. When we met, she said she was fine ne... (154 words)

More turned on by male than my wife

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 941 days ago

24 May 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - I WONDER if I’m gay because I get more excited about nude pics from my online lover than I do about sex with my wife. Sometimes I imagine being in bed with him when I’m getting intimate with my wife. He lives in Canada, and I'm here in the UK. I’m 45, my wife’s 39 and ... (330 words)

How do I get the love of my life back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

24 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - We met one summer in his town and instantly fell in love.... we had a really passionate relationship, he was an amazing provider and lover and everything I could ever dream of. He asked me to move to his town and I did so for him, leaving my job and family , hobbies and ... (1614 words)

Wife does not care if we have sEx yet wakes me up taking care of herself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

24 May 2022 (M)

age - I've been married for 43yrs.ive work extremely hard until I was diagnosed with post polio syndrome at 42.im eat up with o/arthritis,I've had mennugitis, I have a bullet in my back I'm in chronic pain,me and my wife had sex everyday for years.then she had her back operated on ... (358 words)

I am an illegal immigrant. How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

24 May 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a Belgian woman who's been in the US since August 2003 now, came in on a tourist visa, never went back. My family know although they're concerned about this. I came here for holiday, but eventually got under-the-table work at a McDonald's and then a showroom s... (269 words)

Husband leading double life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

24 May 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I’VE discovered my husband has been leading a double life for 20 years – and paying out huge sums of money to support his secret family. He always told me he was supporting an education project near Johannesburg — now I realise he was funding his mistress and two children in ... (429 words)

Wife cheating with my father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

23 May 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there. I've just found out my wife of 5 years has been cheating on me with my dad and is moving in with him soon. She admitted the affair's gone on since August, and that she wants him to be stepdad to our 8-year-old son. I'm Swedish, my wife's Italian, but been here si... (616 words)

How to handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

23 May 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend has recently launched, although not opened yet, a new restaurant in our town. It's not a podunk town, but no big city either. The new restaurant specializes in Mexican food and take-out sandwiches / donuts (in a separate area for take-out). He wants to do som... (382 words)

Worried about my stolen nude photos

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

22 May 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - For my 21st birthday, I hired a professional photographer to takes my photos. The photographer printed the photos. And she deleted the soft copies. I kept the prints in a hidden compartment in my drawer in my room. The photos are for myself only and I never showed anyone. ... (478 words)

I sent an email to boyfriend that he was not supposed to see

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

21 May 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I'm 33F and my bf is 27 and in the navy. He's been deployed since Feb, and it's been super hard. After managing to keep it together for the most part, I lost it last week. All my suspicion and worry compounded and I sent him an email letting him know about my co... (351 words)

I am hot tempered and sarcastic. Normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

21 May 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I have noticed a thing about me and my family we are hot tempered and easily angry/sarcastic and i am too. i always have mood swings from dull to angry to happy and to sometimes sad. i don't know if it is normal because i feel normal and i would feel happy for no apparant reas... (71 words)

Fell in love with a F boy now I want to move on but don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

21 May 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello guys! I feel so guilty and stuck in something so messed up I had to talk to somebody but I didn’t know how to so I came here. I fell in love with a f boy so hard I don’t know what to do. We were in the same school but I had to move but now it is time to go back. Thank g... (382 words)