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writes:Me and my wife had our weekly date night, went to a restaurant we hadn't been to for ages.Nothing odd about that.We always have weekly date nights to stop things growing stale or too mundane.Well, in 3 weeks our 15th anniversary is coming up (of being together as a couple, not 15th of being married!), and soon, the 11th anniversary of our marriage, which is both the 10th and 11th combined due to COVID limiting us from doing what we wanted to socially. But the anniversary isn't the problem.We're planning on doing a simultaneous 10th and 11th wedding anniversary party with friends, how on earth do you celebrate both simultaneously in one party?We want to do a large buffet but have no idea how to run one. Never done this before!We met 17 years ago after being introduced by a female friend of mine, but didn't start dating until 2 years later. The problem was that an incident happened when me and my wife were having a meal in this nice restaurant that does traditional woodfired pizzas.We hadn't been for a few years, especially due to the pandemic.We were sitting down having conversation as normal when this big black guy with glasses came up to our table, and demanded "YOU FUCKING GET AWAY FROM MY WIFE. I'M GONNA HAVE WORDS WITH YOU, HO, AND AS FOR YOU, YOU'LL FEEL MY WRATH FOR FUCKING HER."But I'm not fucking any other man's wife. I know my wife that well. If she was married, it'd be public record. And it is, it's publically on record somewhere we're married.So she can't be married to him.The guy demanded to see her Boston Red Sox tattoos on her body and for her to take her top off and show them.But my wife doesn't have them. She's got a small star tattoo on her right arm, and an owl tattoo near her belly, a small owl in green.She's not one of these who's got loads of tattoos, only two she really liked.I've never seen this guy before and wonder if he's got mental problems.We don't even live where the restaurant is, a major city in our state.Why would this guy accuse me of sleeping with his own wife?Luckily I didn't try and get into a fight, and my wife stood her ground, telling him no.I just told a member of staff about it and they dealt with it.He kept trying to fight, but I ignored it; he began throwing food at us.Apparently he'd been staring at us from another table and we hadn't noticed.He eventually got thrown out of the restaurant, but it soured our date night and we left after paying the bill, and went on to get some fries and coke afterwards.Yeah, perhaps we'd eaten too much but stress levels were high.No cops were called, no fight broke out.Is it wrong for my wife to worry a bit about this incident?She's not so paranoid she doesn't want to go out, but worries she may see the guy again.Did we handle it correctly?I'm wondering what on earth could have caused this conflict.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2022): ...What could have cause this conflict ?
Your hyperactive imagination - what else , otherwise ?!
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reader, RitaBrown  +, writes (27 May 2022):
So which question is your priority? How to organize your anniversary party or what to do about the incident in the pizzeria?
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