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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:For my 21st birthday, I hired a professional photographer to takes my photos. The photographer printed the photos. And she deleted the soft copies. I kept the prints in a hidden compartment in my drawer in my room. The photos are for myself only and I never showed anyone.Last Christmas when I had went back to my home country, our house was empty. And burglars broke into our house, they stole our TV, my housemate's laptop, they even found my hidden nude photos and stole them.Police helped us, but I did not tell them about the photos. Since my photos stolen, I cannot sleep, I loose appetite to eat, and I constantly stressed because I worry that they will upload my photos to the internet. My photos have my face and my body in the same page, easy to see it is me.Every day I online search, for my photos. Good luck so far because I have not found them. I even searched for porn websites. Last time, I forgot to delete my history, my father found out, and he blamed my smaller brother for looking, but my father did not know it was me. My brother said he is guilty, so I know he sometimes looks for porn. He is still in school, not even university. He is a good boy, good at school, I did not expect at all! But if my my brother looks for porn, I think most men secretly look for porn.Now, I have started a new job in Australia. So far, every thing is good. Sometimes after I finish my job I even forget about my problem. But on many days, I stress again, I am afraid some people, maybe my boss, or my team mate, will find my photos. Or my boyfriend, because I did not tell him, because if not he will leave me. He asked me why I keep stressing, but every time I lied, every time I said my job made made me stress.And if I return to my home country, they will not accept me, my people are more conservative, they will not understand.I always searched online, there are many forums for addiction, and it seems many men look for porn in their life. Some more than others. Is this true? And how many percent, if someone can guess, please tell me?Thank you for your advise. I did not write my real birthday and it is not my real country, but my culture and government is very similar to it, so I hope you can understand in general which part of the world I am from.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2022): Most likely they just chucked them in the bin. If they haven't done anything with the photos in the last 6 months, they're incredibly unlikely to do anything with them now. There are plenty of images of naked women online. Just try and forget about it. In any case, even if they did eventually come out, remember that half the world's population are women with bodies just like yours. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2022): Ordinary nude photos are not porn. They will be considered very boring by today's standards.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2022): Unless you are a very famous woman nobody will care about your photos. They matter to you because they are you and you paid but they are worthless. Men can go online and see naked photos of lots of women easy now, it is a drop in the ocean.
Who would be able to recognise you? Are you saying that your father or a brother or family member would see you on a porn site? In which case why were they there in the first place if they are so holy and good?
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