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16-17,
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writes:Hello guys! I feel so guilty and stuck in something so messed up I had to talk to somebody but I didn’t know how to so I came here.I fell in love with a f boy so hard I don’t know what to do. We were in the same school but I had to move but now it is time to go back. Thank god I had to move though because I knew I was going to do something wrong if I was with him. I found out he is a f boy after I moved but the problem is I just really love him a lot and it feels like I will never get over him completely. I am totally opposite of him and I have strong boundaries. I know what I want in life and I know I can do way better than him but the only thing that is keeping me is I don’t know if I can ever fall in love like that. I don’t know who will be with me in the future but I feel so guilty for this. I have no idea what to do, how to get over him or anything. Even worse, I am going back and he will definitely be there. At first I thought I was totally over him but in time it came back when I wasn’t mad anymore and seeing his picture out of the blue it was all just too much for me. I know I don’t want him and I hate him. I mean I just don't care about him anymore but I know I still have feelings for him. I feel so stuck and so clueless. I know there is a better future ahead of me and my education and all and I want to meet someone new and just do it all over again but this time nicely. But this is keeping me from it. I don’t know if I can ever fall in love again. And this thing totally got me trust issues. I can never trust any boy ever again. What do I do?I really need some advice on how to move on from this f boy and thanks for listening to me.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (23 May 2022):
 You know that you are are better off without him, you know that there never was or ever will be a future with him.
You was not in love with him, you thought you was. You were crushing on him.
Time is the healer of all things, the feelings you are having will soon dissipate.
Just think to yourself that you are lucky you found out what he was and had a chance to get out.
Onwards and upwards and good riddance.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 May 2022):
 Agree with FA.
It's a crush, it will end.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (22 May 2022):
 You haven't even fallen in love yet. You had a crush.
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