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writes:I've been married for 43yrs.ive work extremely hard until I was diagnosed with post polio syndrome at 42.im eat up with o/arthritis,I've had mennugitis, I have a bullet in my back I'm in chronic pain,me and my wife had sex everyday for years.then she had her back operated on and disc fused neck surgery both knees.ive had 17 operations.when she went on disability at 58 after 41yrs.working in a hospital.i worked almost 30 yrs in a factory 10 and 12 hrs a day.she came home one day and told me things where going to change.she never kisses me,she don't care if we have sex or not I just stop asking.she want let me touch hardly no part of her body it's hard to live with your wife and not touch her.she want even let me see her naked.i try my best to be a good husband and I care about her I tried to get her to talk to me about this problem.she goes off.i know she masterbates alot but want let me do it for her.she don't even look at me and she don't want no foreplay.its caused a rift between us and it aunt good.its not she masterbates I masterbate but I like to have sex with my wife.its like there's a wall there she said you can do it when you want to just do it and be done with it pretty romantic.ive done everything she has no pain with intercourse.now I'm lucky if I get it once in 2 wks.but she wakes me up in the morning wanking herself and then design she's doing it and starts to scream at me.leave her alone.i thank porn is not good for anybody to look at but if I want to see what it looks like I have to look at porn and it bothers me.i have to be stimulated to ejackalate and even then it takes me 45 minutes at lest to get it done.but with her even if she does nothing it goes alittle faster.can anyone give me some help or info.its killing me.l love my wife she the only woman I've ever been with.help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2022): Thank you Rita it wasn't the answer I wanted to here. But maybe I need to say it like this,I love my wife an d it's not all about sex but wanting to love my wife.its hard to go from day to day and not touch my wife to be honest sex isn't the main problem but when you have lived with someone for 43yrs.and all she wants me to do is work listen to her talk and I. Feel. Like a stranger in my own house.anytime I ask for sex she says come on, but it's more to it than that, I feel lonely.and it shouldn't be that way.i live with pain everyday of my life but I still try to function to help her and myself.i have been in alot of bad health situations 17 operations.been shot had mennugitis polio post polio syndrome, that's just for starters.i know what pain is, the depression alone is enough to get you.i need my wife I need to feel close to her,I lived part of my life on my own my mother didn't want me my dear aunt named me.my brother was her favrolet and still is, I've been on my own since I was 12 yrs.old.ocd just about killed me so it's not all about the p___y,it's about closeness need someone.try getting up everyday and cant hardly move and nobody ask how are you doing.between 18 and 42 I worked myself to death for my family I didn't go out with the guys I slept 4hrs. A night kept my kids then work 12hrs a day everyday.i would be so tired I'd come home and fall in the bed.if I ever wanted a piece of p___y I had to pull her underware off do it put them back on and she who worked just as hard if not harder didn't hardly know what I done.if I wanted it that's how I got it. Or I'd never would get it.but the main thing was that closeness. Of putting my arms are her kiss her and pat the Bush and fall over and sleep for 4hrs.and do it all over again.we had layoffs all the time so when you worked they killed you 7 days a week then no work.im not a dog.ive never been with but one woman in my life .so at least I thank she owes me why she's turned like this,well that all I can say I appreciate your advice.i reckon there's no other way to say it then the way you stayed it.thanks
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reader, RitaBrown  +, writes (26 May 2022):
So you're faced with a difficult decision which only you can make. What is more important to you? Staying married to your wife or having sex? If having sex is more important than your marriage, then get divorced.
Sometimes in life we don't get everything we want.
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