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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do people start dating when they are not over their exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

30 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Or get into relationships for that matter. I'm dating a few guys at uni, and the number who are clearly just looking for a re bound or keep bringing up their exes is disgusting. And I know people who've even gotten into relationships with people, said I love you etc only to ... (167 words)

Our sex is becoming just sexual gratification for his sordid fantasies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

30 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I'm concerned about my boyfriends sexual orientation/preference. We have been dating for 4 years now, as the 4 years have progressed his sexual habits have changed. He isn't tame , it's always got to be depraved , he's always got to have me dressed in latex... (212 words)

How could he treat me so badly and now act like nothing bad ever happened between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

30 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi 6 years ago I met the man of my dreams I was madly in love with him and things were going well after a year of been together I fell pregnant and miscarried the baby the next day my boyfriend kicked me out of his flat no explanation as to why he kicked me out I had to get a ... (161 words)

I want first date to turn into relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

30 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been doing online dating for the past 4-5 years. I have made a couple of friends from it which was a bonus. I have been chatting to a guy for a few week now and are meeting this weekend. He had had really bad health over the last 3 month and because of this it makes him ... (198 words)

I think my crush found out I like him and now he's avoiding me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

30 November 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a crush on this guy ( let’s call him K ) We used to study in the same class. I went to another class now so we don’t see each other often. Back when we were in the same class, he used to talk to me and tease me a lot. I think he liked me, but he never confess his love to ... (353 words)

I want to approach her but don't know how to talk to her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

29 November 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello , I am in my 20's male, I recently got admitted to a new college, And I met a girl who I really fell in love with, But Im scared to talk to her because I am an introvert from childhood, and I get nervous when I talk to people, and screw up my words.... Im not being pr... (83 words)

Trying to force me to have an abortion but still seeming to care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

29 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an on - off relationship for 2.5 years, mostly on, and very passionate. The man in question is an MD of a large company, but had just finished with his wife of 20 years when we started our relationship. He told me that they had been living like brother and sister ... (413 words)

How to deal with a needy friend who’s staying over the Christmas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

29 November 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - (sorry I've just realized how long this post is) She’s a friend I’ve known all of my life. Our fathers were best friends. She has always been extremely needy and I’ve dealt with it and not always in a good way (meaning that I would often say yes to requests and wanting to s... (981 words)

Parents moving- what should I do with my pet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

28 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some help please on a family related issue please.. My parents have been alcoholics since I was little and I had a hard upbringing. The only thing that really helped me growing up at home was having my pet dog alongside me (he's mine since I was young!) and he's been my... (541 words)

I work with a younger doctor and am very confused about his behavior around me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

28 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Am a hospital nurse, a worker, not a boss or manager, am quieter, do my thing, am not full of ego, work quietly and am polite. Am gay. Yeaterday at work this cocky, arrogant young Dr (maybe 27-28) makes a comment to a male nurse (steve) my age that he “is distracted by bea... (348 words)

I was sent nasty emails, how do I cope ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

28 November 2018 (F)

age - MOD NOTE: There are no "experts" just nice people that volunteer their thoughts and help. I have a question I would rather discuss privately. I have received two very nasty emails from people I once knew. I have sought solicitors advice and I'm satisfied with what the solicito... (109 words)

Heartbreak - What are your best ways of getting over it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

28 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Thank you for choosing my post and taking the time to respond. I ended it with a guy I had been with for two years, after he was abusive and disloyal. Simple question - how do I get over it quickly? I hate heartache so much and he doesn't deserve for me ... (210 words)

I'm lonely and need friends but I am worried that at my age the only friends I may make now will be "messed up" people.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

27 November 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I am nearly 50 and I am often lonely. I'm a 'high achiever' I suppose. Very highly educated, employed, fairly healthy but very low energy and a history of depression (which I've never told anyone about, but tended to hide, fearing rejection). I have a daughter who I h... (1566 words)

Why would a mother do this to her own children? Where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

27 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - It will be two years in February since i stopped talking to my mother. Myself and my sister found out she had been telling a lot of strange lies about us behind our backs for years. I always thought the rest of the family and family friends were very distant but I just put it ... (189 words)

He knows I like him but went on a date with someone else. Is that a sure sign he doesn't care for me like I do for him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So there's this guy that I work with who I have a crush on. He knows i like him actually but i dont know how he feels. Anyway we talk a lot at work and have started talking outside of work too. Well he told me today how he went on a date this weekend and well of course ... (104 words)

I tried to make new friends but apparently it isn't working. Where did I go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

26 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Im at an age where I've lost a lot of friends for various reasons over the years and trying to make more interesting new friends so I msged an aquantance with a common interest and all seemed well and positive. She said she would talk to her friends who I also have met and ... (131 words)

I married the man I was having an affair with and I am struggling with trust issues, and feeling anxious and worried everyday he will cheat on me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) age 51-59 - My husband left his former wife to marry me. I know that it does not usually end up this way and that we are in the minority but we fell in love. We have been together almost 5 years. He dissolved his marriage after 3 years of our being together and we have been married for 2 ... (1567 words)

Why would my friend of 20 years spill information about me to my subordinate co-worker that he only met after just 10 minutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

26 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend have known each other for 20 years. We are neighbours, we have grown up together. Throughout our lives, we have taken different paths but we always meet again, and things have been fine. I had been working at my job for 3 years. When one day, One of ... (307 words)

She is comfortable being naked around me? So is she sexually attracted to me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

26 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - She isn't an exhibitionist and I am not a creepy pervert or anything like that. I just happened to bump into her while she was naked a couple of times but she was cool about it. I thought she would avoid me or move out but she didn't. She acts as if nothing awkward had happened ... (708 words)

What's the optimum compromising point in a relationship? How do I balance boundaries and insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm doing a lot of soul searching, so I'll probably be on here a lot asking questions that to every one else sound like common sense. Please bare with me, I'm a lost person. How to i know the difference between being irrational or having my values defrindged? It seems li... (294 words)

We've been together for 5 years and my partner just gets lazier and lazier

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’m in a relationship have been for 5 years now but my partner is getting lazier and lazier by the day he goes to work which is a very easy job I get up on a morning get our 2 kids up get them ready for school do breakfast get myself ready and take them to school pick our ... (243 words)

I'm beginning to feel that its me vs my boyfriends flatmates

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Been with my partner for about a year and half (the first year was spent being long distance) before he moved back up here where we see each other every weekend (due to work). Lately, I have felt we are arguing/disagreeing more and I'm getting upset about little things. ... (181 words)

"Hello my friend" Who would you send that text to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - Who would be the type of person you would send a text to starting with the words 'Hello my friend'. Would you send it to an old friend, a general acquaintance, a customer or another person.... (37 words)

I had to work in a different work area and everyone was so rude. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

26 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday I had to work in another area at work (just yesterday) due to their understaffing. Not 1 person but the in charge introduced themself, or said hello. why so rude? If I had a different person in my area for one day I’d always introduce myself! Why are they so... (115 words)

The guy I'm dating isn't feeling well I don't want to overwhelm him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

25 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks. It’s been going very well other than the past month he’s not felt good. He never gets sick, and when he does it’s for a few days. He has been to the doctor 3 times and it has not seemed to help. He’s obviously getting frustrated and upset ... (218 words)

The lack of affection, is it a lack of love or due to upbringing? shall I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

25 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Greetings everyone. I have been with my partner for 4 years. We recently got married. Over all I was happy with the way things were and I grew very accepting of the fact that my partner is just not as affectionate as I am or at least that he doesn't show it physically or ve... (667 words)

I'm flying 1/2 way across the world to see me girlfriend who is probably going to break up with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

25 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past few months, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 6 years. The long distance is supposed to last another 5 months. I'm planning to visit her next week for a few days on my way to a conference, and then again two weeks later for the rest of ... (356 words)

My pregnant best friend and I had a misunderstanding and now she won't talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

25 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend who recently got pregnant stopped talking to me over a small mis understanding. I was having a really shitty day at both personal and professional life and to vent i posted something somewhere..she assumed it was was her and went berzerk..She never gave me a ... (149 words)

I’m crazy in love with my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

25 November 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok so here’s the thing, I’m like crazy in love with my best friend right but I don’t know if he likes or loves me back and I don’t want to ruin the friendship and I don’t think I can stop loving him what should I do?... (47 words)

Should I ask her to wear leather to bed to spice things up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is quite a awkward question but I wondered if anyone else has had something similar. I want to spice up me and my girlfriends sex life. I have a bit of a fetish for girls in leather boots and gloves. My girlfriend is by far not someone who would wear these normally i... (102 words)

How do I get over my dream guy and an almost relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm looking for advice on how to move on from an almost relationship with my dream guy. To provide context (and apologies for the length), earlier this year I met this guy on a dating app. He was from my hometown, we fou... (1563 words)

I think he’s an alcoholic and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do. I think he would be called a high functioning alcoholic, he has a good job, a nice house and a car. Drink really doesn't interfere with work. But he drinks nearly every day. I'm getting a bit fed up of it,... (262 words)

Are other people’s contractors like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 November 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am in my early 40s and recently been having some work done on my house. Had a very helpful guy doing the job and while the work has been done we were messaging each other in the evenings just generally. He mentioned that he 'would always be at my disposal' and th... (228 words)

Who is the cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

24 November 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - If you have a baby with a man and he ditches you and then some years later you meet him again and he goes back to wanting to sex you again and you can't stop wanting to see him and then you find out he already has a girlfriend who he is still seeing, but you have a child with ... (92 words)

How can I get him to accept we won’t be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

23 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I posted a question last weekend but I'm still really interested in hearing some advice on my situation. Things have changed a little in the meantime. Basically, I've fallen for a guy I met early this year in the US. He believes we can be together, but now I've told hi... (408 words)

We had a threesome things went wrong and now my husband blames me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2216 days ago

23 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - After 20 yrs of marriage my husband asks for threesome, after two yrs we finally tell my friend that she is our threesome girl, my husband was madly in love with me, then I hear that she is coming over to visit during the day to smoke, then I notice them teasing and she is ... (436 words)

My husband expects me to give him money to send home to his family every month

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

23 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thank you My husband and I have been married for two years. He is a charming man, shows affections and can be very expressive. I do love him , I just don’t like some traits he has. He doesn’t like to be questioned, and he gets angered quickly. There have been ... (336 words)

I want to end the relationship but I'm scared I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

23 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’m in a relationship for 6 years we have a 3 yr old son lately all I think about is ending the relationship I’m not happy at all he does nothing for our child I do everything in the house I go to work and I look after our son the problem is I’m 5 days late on my period and ... (144 words)

I shaved my nether region and don't like how it feels

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

23 November 2018 (F) age 22-25 - I shaved “down there” for the first tim and when I touch it , it feels like a whole bunch of splinters and hurts evry time something touches it what do I do ?... (34 words)

What is going on with my psychotherapist? Is he interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

22 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - In the recent past, my therapist had said something to me that made me feel uncomfortable as well as uncertain about how he feels towards me. He has stated that I've always been his favorite client after I had told him that I liked him as a therapist. I was getting ready to... (341 words)

Did she not change her status because she hasn’t given up on us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

22 November 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Thank you in advance for reading and hopefully giving me some advice. I will do a quick background on me, I'm Dave I'm 33, I have a son he lives with his mum but I have regular contact with. Right where to start, I have been in a new relationship for about 5 months. ... (427 words)

My boyfriend who is broke pretends to take control of my economy and my bank.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

22 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Me (22) and my boyfriend (26) went on a trip that we didn´t plan. At first it seemed like a good idea because he was about to get some money for having quit his job, and someone was about to send him money that the person owed to me. I spent all my money in that trip. I had to... (571 words)

What could be going on with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

22 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - So last year I was meeting this guy for a while (about 2 months) and to my shock he told me that he was going to prison. He had gotten mixed up with the wrong crowd something to do with drugs and he got sentenced. We agreed to not talk whilst he’s in prison because it would ... (231 words)

New job but ridiculous ongoing hoops. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

22 November 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just started a new job a week ago. I was told my background check wasn’t completely back yet, but to go ahead and start on my scheduled date. Today, I’m called into HR and told that there was a date discrepancy with an employer from 4 years ago. I explained that I’m sorr... (167 words)

How do I stop being desperate and clingy when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2139 days ago

22 November 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in mid twenties. My previous and first relationship was with a guy from high school . We were together for 6 years and he cheated on me. It was very messy and painful breakup. I made him like centre of my universe and did all compromises to make him happy. In that p... (176 words)

How do I get my gf to have sex with me again? If she doesn't, then how do I cope with not having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

21 November 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody I have been with my girl for a year. we love each other. but since from early on our sex life has been pretty minimal. only when she drinks she initiates sex. but now she doesn’t drink we have talked about it and she says she’s just going through things ... (222 words)

Is he interested in sex? Companionship? What?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

21 November 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m utterly confused and would love your help. A man I’ve known for years has been texting me with cryptic messages. We live in different states. He asked me to visit him. I laughed it off. But he asked again and nowI know he’s serious. He teases with borderline flirty ... (148 words)

Why did she block me when she said I could contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

21 November 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - a female from school who I knew, bumped into me in the street. I don’t know if this was on purpose or if she was trying to get my attention. anyway we had a coffee and spoke for an hour and just had a catch up. all seemed good, she told me she was on facebook and said if I ... (134 words)

My boyfriend's best friend doesn't like me and is trying hard to get him away from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

21 November 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months. I have a 16 month old son so things have gotten pretty serious between the pair of us. The relationship is great and he’s going to propose at Christmas. However his best friend never liked me. When my boyfriend told his... (224 words)

She's 18, I'm 25. Am I a creep for talking to her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

20 November 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been doing some online speed dating to fire up my social life. Recently I met a girl (and fellow foodie). It was almost too easy to small talk my way to a date this Thursday. The problem is, she is 18... She just finished highschool and is still thinking about what to do ... (126 words)