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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:If you have a baby with a man and he ditches you and then some years later you meet him again and he goes back to wanting to sex you again and you can't stop wanting to see him and then you find out he already has a girlfriend who he is still seeing, but you have a child with him and he already knows your body inside out and how to turn you on , then who is cheating in this situation?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 November 2018):
 Obviously he is a cheat and the mother off his child is also having an affair with a taken man. Just because they share a child together doesn't mean it is okay to have sex when he is in a relationship.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (25 November 2018):
 Umm he's a serial cheater.
You are a complicit affair partner.
But only because he hid his current relationship from you.
Here is the important thing. Why would you want him back? Let's look at his stellar qualities. He is unfaithful in every relationship. He doesn't stick to his commitments. He lies and deceives. Is he a good provider to his child? Does he have regular visitation that he has been faithful in attending to?
You are old enough to know better.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (24 November 2018):
 Both. No doubt about it. Doesn’t matter how well he knows someone - stranger or ex, they’re both involved in the cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2018): Both, obviously!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 November 2018):
 Both are cheaters.
Doesn't matter that the woman had a kid with him at some point. She KNOWS he has a GF and thus should KNOW better than to get involved with him. If she wants to be some guy's side-dish that doesn't absolve her from having a little common sense and perhaps some morals.
And him.. he is a piss-poor BF and is only using the woman who had his child.
They should BOTH know better.
Does it really matter though? It's not like either of them really care.
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