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writes:a female from school who I knew, bumped into me in the street. I don’t know if this was on purpose or if she was trying to get my attention. anyway we had a coffee and spoke for an hour and just had a catch up. all seemed good, she told me she was on facebook and said if I wanted I could message her on there, which I did do. when I checked my messages the next day, there was no message from her except a you can’t reply to this conversation, and I only said hello and nothing else and kept it civil. why did she do that to me? I’m just really confused, is she damaged?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2018): Take it for it is- wierd. It's probably best that you step away and move on. There are crazy women out there, she could be one. She could also have very legit reasons for her actions. However, I can't think of any reason that doesn't set alarm bells ringing. Go to the pub with guys, it's less stress!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2018): I’m not dwelling on it too much, it just seems such a waste, I appreciate the advice and help. I think it’s just one of those unfortunate things but suppose it can happen in life
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2018): She probably knew she had blocked you, I can't see how she couldn't have known.
My first thought is maybe she has a boyfriend, possibly an on and off one and she had second thoughts about you once she got home and decided against it...
No point worrying though poster, whatever the reason it's clearly not going to amount to you having a normal friendship or potential relationship, so move on and forget about her
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 November 2018):
 I'd just back away from this one.
There is a reason she suggest Facebook and didn't just give you her number or ask for yours.
What that reason is... I don't know.
OR there was a glitch and she blocked the wrong person.
If she blocked you on purpose I'd stay FAR FAR away from her. Because that is just to drama-llama behavior.
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 November 2018):
 It does seem a little odd, i would not go so far as to say she is damaged. Maybe its a glitch in facebook. Maybe she does not realise its on that setting.
Who knows, personally i would good with good old fashioned exchanging phone numbers, you know where you are then. If she does not respond to your call or text you move on, simple.
Just leave it at that now, maybe you might bump into her in the street again one day.
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