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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress him and get him to like me, but I don't want to ruin my friend's potential relationship. They have been friends for longer too.I'm so confused, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2014): just go on.. be friendly and MOST IMPORTANTLY - COMMUNICATE frequently.. that is the only thing people forgot in the long run
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2014): Well that's weird, I suggest get over him before strong feelings develop and u end up getting hurt
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reader, psychologist to her friends  +, writes (6 September 2014):
I think that you shouldn't have to impress him. This isn't a competition like The Bachelor where you have to try to get time with him or make him want you. Who you are is enough and if a guy can't see that, then honey he doesn't deserve your affection or attention anyway!
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reader, ShakeWutUrMamaGaveYou +, writes (6 September 2014):
Hi Y/n,
I've been through this a couple of times, and if there is a lesson to be learnt, it's that you can not change people's feelings. Move on from him, it's his loss. Oh. And I need to add, if he asks her out and she says no and then asks you out shortly after, don't say yes because then it just shows that he's taking his options and he doesn't like you.
Good luck! There are many other guys in the world so chin up!!!
xxx!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 September 2014):
 I wouldn't try to impress him. Just because You crush on him doesn't mean he feels the same, no matter how much you try to impress him.
You can't "make" another person like you in "that" way.
I know it sucks, but I would look elsewhere got a potential BF.
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