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*yungsooya
writes:i have been dating for 2 yrs. My boyfriend was a lovable person, cared, always show his feelings to me, and so on. But lately he was being so heartless, stubborn, never told how was his day even i asked to, everything has changed.I loved him so much, he always try to find a time to break up with me with his pointless drama, but we ended up together again. when we have an argument, he leaves and ignore me, even he turn off his phone for 2-3 days. he was do mean and heartless boy. lately, every single thing i do is always wrong in his eyes. im a girl with a sensitive heart, crying when i have a problem even i got sick sometimes. i can't bear this feelings, im an introvert. i never tell my story to anyone but i hope you guys can give me advice for my sweet sorrow love story. im hurting so bad. Thank you in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, kyungsooya +, writes (6 September 2014):
kyungsooya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much Nora for the advice!
I forgot to tell, he's the type of person who is hard to say sorry. So when we argue or talk, im the one who always "let him win today". I will try to talk about it with him and never give up, haha. Thank you Nora!
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 September 2014):
How very hurtful your boyfriends behaviour is to you and i understand how you feel.This sort of behaviour will continue if you allow it. So do have a long indept chat with your boyfriend explain first how unfair he is to you with such unkind behaviour.I know that you love him and he knows it to so he is playing on that because so far you have put up with it, Now you will have to be strong and mean it when you tell him that you will not accept this sort of behaviour,Because if you love a person you dont continue to hurt then.Remember you are being treated this way BECAUSE YOU ARE ALLOWING IT TO HAPPEN.Be strong and be treated with respect and love.Best luck NORA B.
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