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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my class and he acts tottaly normal with the girl in front of him. But now he sits behind me and he acts tottaly weird. He just makes weird sounds and acts so silly around me to get my attention maybe and sometimes moves his table so close to my chair and starts to tap on my chair. But when I talk to him he act nervous and weird. And he only flirt and tease my friend a lot in front of me. But he never does that to her when I'm not around. Is he trying to make me jealous? And I always catch guys looking and glancing at me. i mean thats so weird and makes me uncomfortable. What should i do? And one of them poke me in my hips and looked excited when i sat next to him. How do i know if guys likes me for my looks or.likes me for my.personality and for who i am?
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reader, ShakeWutUrMamaGaveYou +, writes (7 September 2014):
Hi Y/n,
I think that guy probably likes you, especially if he's nervous. But guys staring at you isn't weird. Maybe you're really attractive? Or maybe it's your personality that attracts them. Either way, I think you should be happy that you get attention.
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reader, Via F.  +, writes (7 September 2014):
 So yes, that boy does like you. You're spot on.
Now, based off of all the guys staring at you, you are probably pretty. So here's the clue to the liking for looks v. personality:
If the guys likes you right when he looks at you, and you barely know each other, then he will most likely only like you for your looks. The guys that you know well and then like, like you for your personality (and maybe looks also).
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2014): The guy who gets up the nerve to actually talk to you is the guy who likes you. The rest are immature and silly boys.
Stand-up for yourself, don't allow boys to harass you.
Don't allow them to "poke" and touch you inappropriately. That's disrespectful and annoying. When you're tired of the staring and childish behavior, turn-around. Look him in the eye, and ask...do you have something to say? Can I help you? Wait for an answer. No reply, shrug and ignore him.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 September 2014):
 This is not unusual, At your age group(18-20) guys are all going to 'look you over" It's not a danger zone thing. They're just looking to see if they are attracted to you or better yet to see if you're attracted to them. It's quite normal...Part of growing up I suspect. I can see where it could make a girl nervous and uncompfotable though. Try this: stare back at them.
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reader, Forge +, writes (6 September 2014):
 Considering you don't talk to him, I'd say he likes you for your looks. Those noises and actions he's doing behind you is to get your attention. As for your friend, I'd say he likes both of you, and can't make up his mind.
If he can't make up his mind, then he shouldn't date either one of you.
A good way to get him to go away is to tell him to. If he's bugging and irritating you, tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop, tell the instructor.
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