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writes:im dating tanzanian man since like 7 months ago we chatting every day online.he is calling me on viber...he sent me pictures of his private parts,and he said he wants pictures of my private parts. i said yes to him but i do not want to send such pictures to him. please, why should i do this? Do I send these to him or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, JSBach  +, writes (7 September 2014):
You are clearly not comfortable with sending him these pictures. Trust your gut instinct - if you don't want to, don't send him the pictures.
Whatever you send over the net will end up public eventually. Not may, but will.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (7 September 2014):
 Send him a picture of a man's private parts. Let him think he's been chatting up a guy all this time.
Don't do that. I'm just amusing myself. Don't send him any pictures, of any kind, regardless of how innocent they are. This guy is not a decent man and he does not have your back. He's out for a good time is all.
Block and delete him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2014): Do not send him any pictures. He is being very disrepectful and I think you should leave him alone. Never...ever...send someone pictures of your private parts...he could show them to someone else....or even post them on the internet.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (7 September 2014):
 Nope if you DO NOT want to send any then don't. Send a picture of a hairless cat or something.
HE chose to send you picture - you didn't ask for dick-shots, correct? If so, you do NOT owe him ANY pictures pack. HE volunteer the pictures. THAT was HIS choice, you have decided you did not want to send him any lady-bit shots, so don't.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 September 2014):
 Why are you dating a man you don't trust?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 September 2014):
 ABSOLUTELY send a random picture of a cat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2014): send a random pic of a cat!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 September 2014):
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-said-hed-post-naked-pics-of-me.html
This is just one of the awful scenarios that can play out. Yikes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2014): No, because you feel uncomfortable with it! Gosh duh! Come on use your brain
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 September 2014):
You don't owe this man anything. You should not send him pictures if you don't want to - even if you did want to, it's still a bad idea to send naked pictures to anyone you don't know and trust 150,000% (like a husband).
Just because you guys talk, just because he sent you pictures of his junk, in no way, shape or form obligates you to reciprocate. If he makes you feel badly about not wanting to send pictures, then he is clearly a creepy guy who is just after one thing.
Good luck, and please be careful.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 September 2014):
 DO NOT comply with his request...I repeat, NO! never send anything like that over 'the net' unless you want the entire world to have access to them. And, why on earth would you be "chatting" with some guy you'ver never met from another country? Someone needs to wise you up real soon.
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