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writes:my wife died about six months ago and i have been seeing another widow of four years who really likes me and we have had sex which is not the problem, about nine months after she was widowed she took up with a chap who lives about 150 miles away and after a while it all went wonky and he left her really hurting her she had a few dates with other people before me and now she has took up with me although she has made it clear she wants her freedom to carry on socialising with her circle of friends and that does not include me so once a week if im lucky but the real problem is that she informed me that her ex is taking her to the theatre in london and it didnt matter if i got all stroppy she would still go this does not sit right with me at all he is making a round trip of nearly three hundred miles just to take her to the theatre the question is should i finish our relationship or am i just jealous
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 October 2014):
Good news: you guys now have an open relationship which means you can date other women.
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reader, blondebomb2 +, writes (9 October 2014):
 It sounds like your jealous mate. I think you both lost your partners and that may have caused some attachment issues that could be as simple as her wanting not to let go of her ex. (example) Communication is key. It sounds like the way you came across prompted her acting or saying what she said.
You are scared scared to lose her (what your relationship is)
I would build upon your friendship and give her your trust and space and let her know you are there and not going anywhere.. Yet give her space to go out with her friend and trust her..
That's what I got!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 October 2014):
 Your relationship looks just a tad one-sided to me. If you enjoy the once a week relationship then proceed, however if you are hoping for more I don't think you are going to find it with her.
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