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writes:I'm preoccupied about a man I used to work with.We were good friends and he showed me many signs thathe was interested. We talked a few months after I left.However, since then - we have lost contact. We have no way to talk. I can't look him up because he doesn't have facebook or anything like that. I haven't seen him or really talked to him in 8 months. I'm really not the type to hold onto things. If i have a "crush" on someone and I don't see them for a few weeks or a month, I will completely forget them, but I can't seem to forget this guy. I tried to forget him because I fear he doesnt think of me (although i dont really know), but I think about him all the time.In a month I will see him after all this time. Is it better to keep trying to forget or should i continue to be hopeful?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your response!
I don't have his number so I guess ill have to wait!
He might think I lost interest because in our last conversation,
I told him I had a new "guy friend" at my new work place.
And he said "you're just trying to fill the void that i left" and he preceded
to say he met new people at work as well
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2014): if you still have his number you can always text him and say how itd be really nice to have a catch up after all this time. He might think you lost interest when you didn't text so much and then it stopped so he stayed quiet either text him a week or so before your going to see him again or just wait till you see him face to face
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI told him through text that i like him. His response was "I like you too, bud".
Not sure if he meant it in a friend way or not.. considering other things he's
done. He's also called me babygirl and goes out of his way to see me.
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reader, thesj +, writes (11 July 2014):
I don't think continuing to simply "be hopeful" is the right answer, but that doesn't mean you should give up hope.
If he never told you he had feelings for you, it's unlikely he will, whether he has them or not. You need to either take the opportunity to show your feelings and get your answers, or just move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2014): nothing ventured nothing gained , when you get to see him again explain that you like him or ask if he wants to go for a drink sometime if hes interested give him your phone number if he doesn't call then hes not interested and you move on , do you have friends in common if you do then maybe get a conversation going and mention him and wonder how hes doing etc
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