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writes:I liked a guy and I told him how I felt and he told me that he felt the same way. about a week later he told me he had a girlfriend. I asked him why he did it and he told me because they liked each other. So then why didn't he ask me out? Should I have asked him out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2014): Thank you Honeypie, SeaGreen and CindyCares. im sorry WiseOwlE next time you might want to see what other people put as well...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 July 2014):
 Because he is 15, and at 15 he will have liked you, and also her, and also the girl down the road etc.etc. Maybe he was making up his mind among all his likes, maybe the other girl was more proactive, asked him out and beat you to it. Maybe he liked you a bit ,and liked her MORE.
We can only guess. But at the end of the day just " I like you " does not mean much at any age, i.e. does not necessarily mean I want to date you, I want to be your bf , I am in love with you etc.etc. And least of all at 15.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2014): You're pretty young for dating. If you asked him out, where would you go if you're as young as 13 or 14? Maybe he's a player. Boys his age don't really know the rules.
If he already had a girlfriend, he can still like you. Just in a different way. If you go to the same school or have the same friends, he might have thought you already knew he had a girlfriend. Come on, how could you like him so much and not know he already has a girlfriend? You have to have seen him around, and she had to be somewhere nearby.
Maybe he was just deciding at the time he said he liked you.
He might like her more than he likes you; and in a girlfriend-boyfriend kind of way. He may only like you in a friendly-flirty way. He's only a 15 year-old boy; he's kind of awkward when it comes to what boyfriends aren't supposed to say or do. He hasn't had that many girlfriends. At his age, he's lucky if it lasts two weeks.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 July 2014):
 Hmm. I think many guys are 15 are all over the boards when it comes to girls. Should you have asked him out? Well too late to think about that now, honestly. You didn't and he didn't LIKE you enough to ASK you out, instead he found another girl to date less then a week later.
Why didn't HE ask you? Who knows? Maybe he ALSO liked the other girl just hadn't had a chance to ask her out.
All in all you can GUESS til the cows come home.
You didn't ask, he didn't ask - nothing happened.
So I'd leave this guy be. You will met other guys you will like.
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reader, SeaGreen  +, writes (2 July 2014):
 I wouldn't chase after him and would move on. Nothing good will come out of you staying in contact with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2014): yes they do. I am 15. he is 15 as well.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2014):
 Do your parents allow to you to date?
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