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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have just discovered that my boyfriend is taking a part time job as a Male escort , and would consent to having sex with another woman . He was honest with me , but I feel hurt and betrayed knowing he will not be faithful to me . He claims it is a temporary measure to cover previous debts , but i have said I need time out to come to terms with this ......can anyone help ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2014): Does a male escort earn much? because I read somewhere that even in the porn industry male actors earn much less than female actors.Also I think it is much easier for a woman to find a lover than men, besides it is understood that women seek love rather than casual sex in an affair.It would be interesting to have female views on this subject.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2014): I would escort him out the door.
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reader, SeaGreen  +, writes (2 July 2014):
 It would be a deal breaker for me. The risk of STDs would have me running.
He can find something else that doesn't risk your health. If he insists then for your health I really urge you to leave him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 July 2014):
 Yea, I'd say sure go for it, but I can't stay your GF. I understand that he thinks that is an EASY way out of debt, but I'd not date a male prostitute or "escort".
I'd be walking. No way I'd "come to terms" with that, sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2014): If I were you I would leave. Sex with other people is cheating. He doesn't respect himself or you by choosing to be a male escort instead of getting a real job.
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reader, Mark1978  +, writes (2 July 2014):
 Male escort is male prostitute. He will be having sex for payment. No different to you standing on a street corner in fishnets and high heels looking for business.
Ditch this guy if he even considers this. Firstly he just assumes as he sees it as purely business that you are okay with him cheating and all the jealousies that will cause, secondly he is putting your health at risk from HIV, STDs, etc.
Mark
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2014):
 There wouldn't be enough time in the world for me to come to terms about this if I were in your shoes. Surely he can find a more acceptable part time job. Insist that he does or dump him.
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