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writes:this new guy ive been hanging out, is really nice to me, and comes to see me everytime i ask.. and helps me out with anything i need. He also said he likes me, but everytime were together he wont reallly iniciate the first move even tho we kissed already n he touches me so softly not even trying to touch my private parts. i know he is trying to respect me, but if a guy likes a girl doesnt he usually try to grab a boob or something while kissing passionately.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 January 2014):
 A gentleman can grab a taxi, a sandwich, a nap, a wrench, a fishing pole, a movie, etc...but never a woman unless she is loosing her balance and is about to fall.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014): We do if we're an inexperienced teenager, so drunk we don't even know who we're kissing or if we only want sex.
OP do you like being gently caressed and softly touched or would you prefer he grab your tit and try and maul you?
I don't grope either unless we're together a while and I want it to lead to sex. If you want him to start grabbing boob, lead his hand there or something but don't think for one second that not acting like a horny teenager makes him not interested, he wouldn't be kissing you in the first place or hanging with you if he wasn't. In fact if he was a groper then he'd more likely not be interested in you as a person and only your body.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 January 2014):
 You ask: "...if a guy likes a girl doesnt he usually try to grab a boob or something while kissing passionately?"
Depends upon where you are when you "kiss passionately."
IF it happens in the back row of a dark movie theater, you can be darn-sure that we will!!! And, if it's in his room at the frat house... AND, all the other brothers are off to class... you are likely to get that familiar "squeeze."
BUT, if it's at your folks' house... and they might arrive home any minute... We are usually more discrete than that.... After all, your Dad is almost-certain to ask why his precious daughter is 1/2-naked, on the sofa, with some punk-guy's hand copping a feel....
Soooo, chalk it up to circumstances.... and be sure to grab the lucky guy by the wrist and GUIDE him to where his hand ought to be, if he isn't getting your hints...
Good luck.
P.S. Doesn't a girl usually grab a guy's crotch while kissing him passionately????? (Hasn't yet happened to me! Maybe I need to learn to kiss better!)
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (7 January 2014):
 He sounds like a gentleman. Not grabbing your boobs doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you, it shows that he has some respect and isn't just after the physical side of things. He's happy to take things slowly - you've got a good catch, if you ask me!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 January 2014):
 only rude crude men who don't care about women and see them as a piece of meat will do that.
an adult male with self-control and respect for a woman will not grab at her lady parts...
his not being rude and crude does NOT mean he's not into you... in fact it may be just the opposite.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (7 January 2014):
 No, the grabbing of boobs and private parts during kissing is not a sign of somebody liking you .... grabbing at anything is not good manners, its indicative of how the grabber thinks of you
now this new guy, he kisses, he gently touches, he treats you like a piece of fine precious china, something to be cherished and appreciated.
Let things develop naturally, there is no need for groping and grabbing, savour the moment, and share it together.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (7 January 2014):
A guy who goes after your privates parts as soon as he can, tells you what he wants.
Don't rush a good thing. He may not be that experience, and even if he was, do you want to rush love?
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