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writes: what do you think?Is asking a woman after 8month of dating to become exclusive, being to "intense" or putting too much pressure on it???I am courious about it....I did it and got dumped... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Serpico +, writes (8 January 2014):
If you're not exclusive by eight months, trust me, you never will be.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyap 8 month of pull and push... And she was begging me for coming back to her after I decided that it wouldn´t work out cause of her lack of commitment....I came back and actually made my point clear and then she dumped me....doesn´t make sense to me at all..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 January 2014):
Personally, I would say 3-4 months is a good time, 8 months? Yes, nothing wrong UNLESS that is NOT what she wanted - and since she dumped you, she didn't want it.
Be glad it happened now then down the road.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 January 2014):
8 months?! If after 8 months she wasn't wanting to be exclusive, she never wanted it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 January 2014):
She dumped you after you asked her, after 8 months of dating, to become exclusive? My guess is she just wasn't on the same page as you, she wasn't as into the relationship as much you were and didn't want to string you along. Consider it a blessing that you didn't waste anymore time.
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