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*ulliepeter
writes:hii..need alitle advice i started seeing this guy and i sooo like him..and what shocked me yesterday is that i needed him to bring me a phones charger because i had misplaced mine and he is the one who brought up the issue of helping me with his charger so he said hell bring it when he passes by my place so later in the evening at eight i was seeing off my sister i saw him at the road its like he was going home but he dint see me it was dark.so i knew he was gona text me or tell me hs now bringing the charger so i waited and he dint text and i thot maybe he could be busy thats when i decided to tell him its ok he doesnt have to bring me the charger because it was late and he might be tired.he then replied and told me his so sorry because he is in a cab at that moment heading home from town and he will get home late..can you imagn he just lied and i saw him headn home.what should i do am afraid of asking him and am thinking of jus ignoring him his texts and calls would that be lame???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2014): He did something wrong, I think you should confront him. Text him back saying '...but I saw you pass my house 20 minutes ago when I was seeing off my sister lol ;-) ' or something like that. Unless he apologises and explains himself, forget him. If he is lying now, imagine what he would be like in a relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2014): I think this guy probably completly forgot about his offer to lend you his charger until your text reminded him. He then made up a little white lie so you wouldn't think he was a totally unreliable, forgetful dumb-ass. There probably wasn't anything sinister or underhand about his actions - just a knee-jerk reaction for having his failings pointed out to him.
Having said that - if he did forget, it probably means that you aren't on his list of priorities. So he's probably not as into you as you are to him. I don't think you have to completely ignore him necessarily (unless you really want to)- just don't consider him as a romantic interest.
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