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writes:22 year old male,recently tried to have sex with my gf first time ever a week ago. I am a virgin, my gf is too a virgin. Its first time for both of us. I thought it might be easy to insert in her but indeed it was much more difficult.We cuddled a lot, then i tried to insert in her, as I have seen pussy first time in real i was pushing here and there on clit or something. Then i pointed to her vagina somehow..but it did'nt got inside. I fingered her too but my 2 fingers were going very hardly inside her.I tried for sometime and as I was nervous and anxious about my first sex, I started losing erection that I won't be able to perform well and all that silly stuffs. Then we just kissed and then she had to go to her house. The problem is now we won't be able to meet for 2 months as she has to.go.out of station for some work and I am feeling very depressed and sad since then.I did'nt slept for a day.Does all other virgins who have sex first time also have these problem or its just mine.I was very anxious, nervous and my full erection got semi-erect just.I am really feeling so much lonely and sad since then,M i normal na?When I am alone or something I have a perfect erection because I am not nervous that time.I masturbate a lot, can that be a problem?Please help me, I really need ur help :(Thanks in advance:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2014): Been around a week since you posted this, but she's away for 2 months so you have time to correct things.
Your only foreplay was cuddling, no wonder nothing worked, she wouldn't have been ready, spend a few weeks learning each other with hands and mouths when she returns, and use foreplay before trying again, things will be much smoother.
I know you fingered her, but you need to arouse her even before you start that.
Good luck, and don't let it get you down, everyone's awkward starting out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2014): Use a condom it will slide in better.
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