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writes:Hi, after two months with out any contact, I got a phone call two thirty in the morning, I didnt know the number, every one knows how often these days do you get a wrong number on a cell phone. Well i had a friend call that number an ask for a friend of his, his name is almost the same name,so when he ask, the women said, you mean, my ex's name. So what am asking is, is she thinking about me, an just wanting to here my voice, it was a relationship, I treated her good an she couldnt forget her abusive ex, should I call her or wait for her, I dont know if they got back together or not, he knew about me, I know alot of times an ex dont want you but dont want any body else, to have you. So am wondering if they did get back together, he then waited to make sure I was out of the picture, then dumped her, an now she rethinking how I treated her, I know it happened to me 25 years ago, love can be so screwed up.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 January 2014):
 2:30am? She probably drunk-dialed you. And if you're 51-59 years old, aren't you a little old for having a friend screen the call for you, especially if you had an idea who that was?
If she calls again, answer the phone and tell her what you said here - that it's over and you've moved on in your life. She most likely did have buyer's remorse being back with the abusive ex, but she made her bed and now she can sleep in it.
If you took her back, there would be drama, and you could never know if she would leave you again if the ex came around and started saying all the right things. It makes you feel like a chump, and you could not trust her again to do that to you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2014): I think she misdialed from memory; and it was the wrong number. It was just a brain-fart.
I think she's too screwed up for going back to an abusive ex; to consider reopening that drama. You've had some peace and quiet, and a drama-free life.
Why not just let the past be the past, and let sleeping dogs lie. Who wants to be an after-though anyway?
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