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writes:Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in Georgia, and my living situation isn't too good. I'm living with my Grandma and shes constantly: starting arguments, complaining, and telling me to get out and I'm tired of it. New York is like my new beginning. So, should I do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (29 January 2014):
You should stand on your own two feet instead, or develop a back up plan because if things don't work out you will find yourself in quite a pickle.
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reader, woeismeanyou +, writes (28 January 2014):
woeismeanyou is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh and and I left out hes gay and he doesn't live in NYC he lives else where.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2014): New York is very expensive to live in, very crowded and yet a beautiful city. Are you working?, if yes please save first of all and don't be going with someone you have not known long. New York can be a dangerous and mysterious city to live in and I would take your time before going up there. Why not visit the place first so you have an idea what you are up against.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2014): As a mother and sister ' hell no!!' You have not known this guy long enough to know him as a brother ..What happens if he takes you to New York. Gets you hooked on drugs and meeting men for money ??? Have you ever wondered what he gets out of all this ??I'm not saying give up your dream to go to New York. But have some money behind you .. Go get a job. ( if you don't already ) doSome leg work as in you find your apartment you can affordTo rent say at least 8 months rent paid upfront .. You find yourself a jobin New York don't become reliant on someone you hardly know ..He seems all sweetness and light at the minute .. Do you know what makes money nowadays . Human trafficking for extorson and profit ..Please keep safe ..Have boundaries get to really know this guy that takes years not months .
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