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*adyozzy
writes:I have just found out that my ex partner has been cheating on me with his best freinds wife I have found sext messages on his phone he Denys it we were together for 5 years but broke up awhile ago this is the second partner I have had that's cheated on me what am I doing wrong I think they have had a sexual thing going for many years I just feel so stupid especially being 47 yrs old
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): I don't think you're the stupid one for his actions. Who ever heard of cheating where the victim was informed by the perpetrator of its going on? At 47 years of age I'd think its the ex who should feel stupid for still sneaking around for sex like a horny school boy. It is disappointing to discover what you have, but the past is the past, time moves forward not backwards and there's no benefit to dwelling on that now.
Good luck for the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): I understand how you feel, my ex cheated on me throughout the 11 years we were together. It hurt and hurts to know it happened. After we broke up so-called friends would tell me about women he was seeing, and they couldn't tell me about it when we were together WTF! It only kills me to know I wasted 11 years of my life with an @rseh@le but justifies to me why he is an ex. All I can do is learn from it and move on and be greatful that he is no longer in my life.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (29 January 2014):
He's just a jerk, c'mon his best friend's wife?
Don't shed a tear over this guy.
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