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writes:I feel like facebook is ruining my relationship.I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 10 months and things are pretty serious with us.I personally do not use or have a facebook anymore because there seems to be a lot of drama on there, and a few other reasons. It's just not a site I enjoy and I don't really want to be apart of it all.For the past month or so however, my boyfriend has been using his facebook where as he never used to use it at all before. He's been adding some of his female friends and been chatting with them. What I'm getting concerned about is he's been saying girls have been flirting with him on facebook telling him he's hot and that they like him and want to hang out and become friends, etc etc. He says they're just friends and there is nothing I should be worrying about but I am worried. I have not been getting as much attention from him since he's been using facebook. Things just aren't the same with us anymore and I'm really bummed out. I am in a long distance relationship with him and I do not have a facebook so I have absolutely no idea what is really going on with him and this facebook thing...but I have a feeling something is wrong. I'm not trying to say I don't want my boyfriend to have friends. But literally just out of nowhere he's been becoming a lot more social and adding these girls and talking with them. It's apparently gotten to the point to where they're flirting with him and wanting to hang out and stuff. And on top of that, he's been a little different and isn't giving me nearly as much attention as he always use to. Our relationship had been going amazing up until this facebook thing started happening. Can anyone help with this problem I'm having?
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reader, Jaeger12 +, writes (29 January 2014):
Are you sure the relationship was fine before all this happened?
It's sounding to me that he either wants more attention from you or he is testing the waters a bit, wondering if he should be single.
It's just, why would he tell you they were doing this? Seems strange to me.
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