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writes:Not long ago I had an embarrassing moment at my school where I was wearing a thin black spaghetti strap top with just a thin camisole underneath but no bra when someone conveniently decided to snap a picture and thanks to the flash you could totally see my boobs through my top. Imagine my embarrassment when the picture started circulating around my school so everyone and their mother could see it. I was humiliated.But anyway, my best friend has an older brother that I’ve always secretly thought was really cute but never had the guts to come out and admit it. Well, the other day she told me that she walked in on him while he was masturbating to the picture of me with my boobs showing. As she was telling me this, she made it sound like it was the most disgusting thing in the world, but to tell you the truth I was actually kind of flattered and maybe even a little turned on. Am I a total pervert for being turned on by the idea of a really cute boy masturbating to a picture of me?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Is there some sort of problem with being a pervert??????
Good luck....
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reader, R1  +, writes (29 October 2013):
 No you are not a pervert. The person who circulated this picture without your permission is the one at fault. This could be seen as bullying if you were not happy with it. There are also legal implications to passing around a potentially sexual picture if an under 16. Do try and talk to a parent or teacher if something like this happens, they may be able to help.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Nope, you're not a pervert. You're at the age where developing sexuality and curiosity about sex is perfectly normal. As you will see when you're a little older, everyone has slightly different things that turn them on. Some people would be very into something like this and others would not; it just depends on the person.Your friend is grossed out because it's her brother. Seeing your sibling masturbating would be weird and gross to most people regardless of what their sibling were looking at while doing so. I don't think she'd have been any happier to walk on on him masturbating to a picture of a porn star; she only told you because it was your picture he was using. She probably felt obligated to tell you about it, but I can imagine it was an awkward subject for her to bring up!That said, you should not laugh off the fact that a compromising picture of you is floating around school. In this case you're not bothered because the boy is cute and close to your age, but what if a boy you didn't like - or worse, an older adult - used the picture for the same purpose? Now that it is being spread around you no longer have control of who sees it and what they do with it.If there is a school counselor, teacher, or administrator you can bring this up to, I would do so. I'm sorry to say that it's a little late to stop the picture being spread around but there may be disciplinary action they can take toward the people who shared this photo of you without your consent, so those same people will think twice before doing something like this to you or another girl in the future. Good luck and best wishes :)
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reader, desiree075  +, writes (29 October 2013):
Of course your friend would find it disgusting, because it's HER sibling. But you, go ahead and be turned on :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Are you a total pervert? No, but don't let it get to your head and make you do questionable clothing choices in the future in hopes that some dude you like MIGHT see you (or a picture of you) and jerk off to it.
Learn from it.
And like FA said, you probably wouldn't find it so exciting if someone you really can't stand would do that same.
Hopes you learned a little lesson in what's appropriate to wear to school and what is not. And I'm sorry you had to learn that the hard way.
Is the school aware that the picture is/was floating around? Because the boy who TOOK the picture and DISTRIBUTED it can/could/should get in trouble over it. Not only for taking it, but for passing it on.
Are you parents aware?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Aside from the obvious legal problems here, it is a harmless fantasy. Everyone hopes that they are attractive. Everyone likes evidence that someone they are attracted to is attracted to them. You would probably feel differently if you thought a boy you are not attracted to was doing the same thing.
Of course it would be much better if he were to express his attraction to you in a (age appropriate) way that you could both enjoy together.
I'm sorry for your embarrassment. An honorable guy would not keep such a picture of you.
FA
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