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writes: i m 24 year old and my husband is of 30 age . we have just complete 3 months from marriage and we didn't have sex yet? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2013): I do not know what faith you are from, but my advice is to pack your bags and leave. Are you sure he is heterosexual? Pardon my rudeness but did you not go away on a honey moon or vacation after getting married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2013): Doesn't matter what culture. Generally speaking, heterosexual males at thirty should have healthy sexual appetite assuming he's not a stress monster, obese, or releasing his boys elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2013): I know NOTHING about your culture and I know nothing about you personally. Is it considered taboo for a woman to initiate sexual contact? My advice is for you to flirt with him when you are alone together. that could mean that when you are just sitting around, you make and then break eye-contact and then make it again with a slow smile. Compliment him on how handsome he is or how nice he smells. "I love seeing you in that shirt, you always look so good". Physical contact is good as a way of flirting, even a nudge on the arm or rubbing his shoulders. I'm not saying you MUST look a specific way, or that you should stop being true to yourself, but maybe do something different with your appearance once in awhile - wear something you KNOW you look good in. I don't know if you dress "western" or "traditional" and I'm sorry if I offended by using the wrong terms. If you dress "western" maybe wear a form-fitting top that is classy enough not to show a lot of cleavage so he knows you did it for his eyes. Even a cute pair of heels, maybe doing your hair differently. Hopefully, he'll take the hint and flirt back. Then, you can slowly work your way into the bedroom. Do you cuddle him? Kiss his ears or make out even? You may need to blatantly say "Make love to me". Maybe he's worried about hurting you? You may need to straight-out ask why you haven't made love yet.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 October 2013):
 You really don't give us enough info to try and say something sensible about what's going on in your marriage.
Was ot an arranged marriage ? Did he WANT to marry you, had you been regukarly dating, and for how much...?
And : did you try and ask HIM what's the problem and if there's any reason why he won't have sex with you ? .. If you never asked him, why is it that you felt you could not ask ?...
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