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writes:Am I expecting too much or is he not bothered ?Hi, I really can't work out if this guy is bothered or not.We met on a dating site a few months ago and spoke regularly on thephone . He text me regularly and we seemed to get on really well.We started seeing each other about a month ago but as he works nights and I am at uni and have kids it's tough getting time ! When we together he is really affectionate and constantly compliments me . I really like him too but am a bit concerned that he doesn't really text or call me like he did. He makes plans to do things together and talks about things in the future.He says he considers himself a boyfriend but it's very different to what I am used to. I dont usually chase guys but this feels a bit like me doing all the running.He is from Cyprus and been over 11 years ... not sure if his culture might have anything to do with it . Am I expecting too much ? a text or call wouldn't hurt surely ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2013): Do not try to explain his bad behavior away, there is no reason why he could not at least call you. I only text my girlfriend when i cant talk to her and that is not to often.If he by his own words says he is your boyfriend then he has to raise the bar and take some accountability in this relationship. But looking at the other side of the coin he may not really think he is in a relationship with you which might account for his behavior. So do not put to much effort into contacting him in the future and see how long it takes before you hear from him again. Do not be shocked by what happens. I suspect there is something else going on, i only hope you are not left out in the cold by this man. Good-luck...
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