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writes:I was abroad for a year when I met a man who I fell for. He left before me - and we both live in the same city but didn't want to do long distance. I recently came back and wrote to him saying it would be nice to catch up. I got an email straight away saying it would be great to catch up and that he'd try to come to a workshop I was involved with Monday. He has my number. He never came and it's Wednesday now. It is ok for me to call him? Or do I need to wait for him to call me first?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 November 2013):
 He has your info.
He said he would come
He did not come that means he's not that interested.
I would just write him off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2013): He may have changed his mind and figured the best route to go was to simply not resond to you. If so, that's pretty shitty because he owes you an explanation, even if it's "After I thought about it, I realized I just wans't feelingi it and I don't want to lead you on."Another theory is that time simply ran away from him and he got really busy. It wouldn't hurt to call and tell him that you missed seeing him on Monday but that you would like to and could he please let you know either way. That gives him a chance to say yes or no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2013): Ussualy when a person says he ll come he should at least let you now why he didn't come, it's just polite. I wouldn't call if it was even a new friend who never even texted saying he couldn't come. I think it's very clear here that he is not interested
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (6 November 2013):
Get on the horn and call him.....you are old friends and you are catching up. If it leads to more that's great.
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