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51-59,
*ejaVroom
writes:Ive never had anyone in my life say the like me, Ive never had a girlfriend, Ive never Had a passionate hug, I fought in the army, Served 12 years, And when i was just a kid my mom told me i'd find someone, all the way through school no one ever told me they like me or asked me out on a date, I didnt go to prom as i asked over 5 girls and they all said no, Ive never been called ugly in my life, i dont hurt women, I feel like Maybe i wasnt meant to find love. Maybe i was meant to die alone? Ive been depressed for 15 years now and still, not 1 person im my enitre life has ever tried to make any passionate interaction with me, My friends tried to get me a girlfriend by taking me to bars but It never worked, Was i meant to be alone forever?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2013): Sweetheart there is somebody for everybody love will come along one day :)
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (27 June 2013):
For a start well done you You severed in the Army for 12 years-this alone must make you feel so worthwhile.Meeting women is not easy and meeting the right one is difficult.However would you consider joining,some group meetings i.e- a debating groupe -do a course of your choice where there is mixed company.Answer some adverts. for penfriends.Or other groups that might interest you.Also this would help your depression as you would have something to interest you.We must always help ourselves so try and find some group that suits you and NEVER SAY NEVER.Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (27 June 2013):
For a start well done you You severed in the Army for 12 years-this alone must make you feel so worthwhile.Meeting women is not easy and meeting the right one is difficult.However would you consider joining,some group meetings i.e- a debating groupe -do a course of your choice where there is mixed company.Answer some adverts. for penfriends.Or other groups that might interest you.Also this would help your depression as you would have something to interest you.We must always help ourselves so try and find some group that suits you and NEVER SAY NEVER.Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (27 June 2013):
For a start well done you You severed in the Army for 12 years-this alone must make you feel so worthwhile.Meeting women is not easy and meeting the right one is difficult.However would you consider joining,some group meetings i.e- a debating groupe -do a course of your choice where there is mixed company.Answer some adverts. for penfriends.Or other groups that might interest you.Also this would help your depression as you would have something to interest you.We must always help ourselves so try and find some group that suits you and NEVER SAY NEVER.Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2013): Sorry you're dealing with depression... If this is something you've been having on the long term, have you ever tried therapy to maybe help? This could help to just focus on yourself. I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you.
What's your relationship with women as friends? When interested in a woman, how do you make your moves etc? Have you tried online dating?
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