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writes:Whether or not you will answer or not, idk but I am currrently in the same situation, (different of course but sameish) We were best friends for a.long while. Things all changed when he got a gf. I mean, I have had one before, just remember that. We used to hang out A LOT. But, when he got a gf, he suddenly started hanging with her all the time. Idk if I am being selfish, but I was saddened by this. We no longer hung out as much when he got his gf. I mean, when I would hang out with him, it would always be hiand his gf flirting or kissing. This slowly starts building up until I just get mad and illogically got mad and said some things I have not said. I appologized to him and his gf, and we were all friends again. I guess after that he lost all trust in me as a friend. Later, I defended one of my friends from an accusation he made, and he got mad. We didn't talk until the next day, and then he said he had to choose over me and his gf. Idk why he said so. Someone please help me make sense of this.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 July 2013):
 it's very normal even for adults in new relationships to leave friends lagging behind.
either they will settle down and he'll be back or they wil break up and he'll be back...
this will continue over and over in your life. As you grow and mature you will learn to cope better with it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 July 2013):
 This and quite frankly everything else in your life will have to be reviewed very carefully for the next few years. Consider yourself a work in progress.
You will make friends and lose them. Everyone goes through your stage of life. Trust me nobody would ever do it twice. To your own self be true. And know this: nobody dies from adolescence it just feels like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hope so, and also I hope not. It hurt to have that said to me. Thanks though, maybe we could be friends again, and thank you for your time.
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