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Single and sexually frustrated. How can I overcome this?

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Question - (16 December 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I would only want to sleep with someone if I really care for them or love them. I am not up for casual sex at all as I don't get anything from it. How do girls overcome this?

I'm 22 and have been out of my very sexually satisfying relationship with my ex for 5 months. We split as I was building up my own company and in no position at the moment to give the majority of my attention to a boyfriend.

I've met and been talking to this guy for 3 months and there's total sparks when we kiss we had sex a couple of weeks after that and he didn't text me for 2 days and I got really upset. I would normally never let a guy treat me like that and move on but is it absolutely terrible for thinking about carrying on since I'm not looking for a boyfriend but also enjoy sexual contact since I fancy him??

My sexual frustration is driving me insane.. I've tried masturbating, using differnt toys and techniques, working out at the gym.. It doesn't cut it grrrrr!!!! Help me? How can I overcome this?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (28 December 2013):

rcn agony auntAll you an really do is find someone who's good for you that you want to be with and that solves your sexual frustration. Masturbating only offers a temporary cover for satisfaction, but is never as satisfying as the real thing. There's someone out there for you, it's just a matter of your finding him.

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A male reader, Gauntlet France +, writes (28 December 2013):

Gauntlet agony auntWell, I'm sorry to tell you that you are kind of hysteric. Litteraly. If someone can't bear not having sex for just some days, it's a sign that something's wrong... or why not, a signe that something goes too well ? Maybe your body's asking for a guy to fertilize your "egg" in order to make a baby. The call of nature...

A suggestion for the short term: buy yourself a sybian if "normal" masturbation doesn't work for you. Calm down your needs, and then try to find someone to love. And I mean to love, not to have sex with.

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A male reader, Gauntlet France +, writes (28 December 2013):

Gauntlet agony auntWell, I'm sorry to tell you that you are kind of hysteric. Litteraly. If someone can't bear not having sex for just some days, it's a sign that something's wrong... or why not, a signe that something goes too well ? Maybe your body's asking for a guy to fertilize your "egg" in order to make a baby. The call of nature...

A suggestion for the short term: buy yourself a sybian if "normal" masturbation doesn't work for you. Calm down your needs, and then try to find someone to love. And I mean to love, not to have sex with.

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