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writes:I Have Been In Various Relationships Over The Years I Have Been Living With My Boyfriend For Over 15 Years He Is A Good Man But He Doesn't Take Me Anywhere Or Go Out With Me I Am With His Mom More Than Him I met A Man Who Is 15 Years Older Than Me And I Can't Stop Thinking About Him We Hang Out Together And He Kisses Me And Tells Me I Am Beautiful My Boyfriend Does None Of That Is It Possible To Be In Love With Two Man Even Though One Only Uses You Forr Cooking And Running Errands I Need Help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2013): No its not possible.
You see if your loving two people at the same time, there would be one who will be treated unfairly or poorly.
You will not be able to divide your attention to both fairly.
So the one treated poorly is the one you don't love.
But its possible to be attracted to two people at the same time. But Love, No. Its a very strong word.
(I rarely use it. I can only say I love you to a guy, if we've been dating for 6 months exclusively. So when I say, I love you, its a price for a bf. Maybe you should learn from me. Act and love like a man do. Otherwise you will be treated poorly.)
Maybe you just love the attention your getting from the new man in your life. its nothing, everything starts so good, remember the first time when you met your bf for 15 years.
how does it feels? do you still recall that everything was seems so good at the start.
Because generally, men are just good in the beginning.
so trust me, the one you just met will caused you trouble too. maybe even worst because he is younger than you.
Whatever your decisions are, its up to you.
My suggestion is just for you to be single. if you cant be faithful then just stay single. and date whoever you want to date.
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