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51-59,
*ommy Crue
writes: This is something that really shouldn't mean anything I guess but I'm just curious about. My ex wife had slept with a guy 7 times as a teenager. She said she never enjoyed it and didn't want to do it.My current wife had slept with 2 guys as a teenager. She didn't enjoy it and said she only did it because she was pressured into it.Is this very common ? The first guy was just someone she was hoping for a relationship with and the second was a boyfriend that she never actually loved. I just assume they did it because of low self esteem.It does make me feel good that I'm the first they enjoyed sex with. I just wonder if this is a common thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2013): I am 50. I abhored sex as a younger woman. I only engaged 6 times with one male. Then when I hit 48, I became a nymphomaniac. I f*cking love f*cking.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 August 2013):
Looks like your G/Fs never ran in to a guy such as me. IF they had... you NEVER would have had a chance with them!!!!
Count your blessings!!!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (8 August 2013):
Probably sexually inexperienced teenagers having sex with each other don't necessarily yield orgasmic results. It could have also been because they though they were doing wrong. I didn't have sex until I was 18 and it wasn't great. At all. I was a virgin and he just didn't surprise me at all.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 August 2013):
Usually the reason MANY teen girls never truly enjoyed sex was because the sex they had was with inexperienced TEEN boy. Who though insertion was all that mattered.
I had a pretty decent "sex-life" in my teens ( didn't start to have sex til almost 19 so maybe that is why?)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 August 2013):
I did it as a teen and while I thought i liked it... i found out at 35 that teen sex has nothing on being a mature woman... if you had asked me at 20 if I enjoyed sex as a teen I would have said yes.
in hindsight, i had no clue...
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