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writes:How do I proceed?I dated a guy last year I met from my cousin and things were going really well. He has a reputation of being a player and I am anything but that. My cousin told him that if you want to hook up with "me" do what you want you are both consenting adults, but if you want to date her and treat her badly thats not okay with me. Long story short , we stopped dating without any communication from him.About a month ago he recently contacted me asking to go for drinks. I declined because I was busy but he was very persistent and we ended up meeting one night for drinks. we went back to his place and I declined anything sexual that he was initiating and left. I simply asked him why he called me and he said because he likes spending time with me...I heard from him a few days later to go to a sports event he got tickets to from work so I went and we had a great time and he dropped me off and dint come up. We talk very sporadically but I am slowly starting to like his company again and am wondering if he is ready for something more serious then just a casual fling if thats why he contacted me... or if he is just trying to have a some summer fun.I want to initiate our next hangout/date but not sure how - how do I proceed?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 August 2013):
 As long as you refuse his sexual advances, and he is respecting your choice...he may be wanting to actually date you. However, with players they rarely ever change their ways. They also like a "good chase", especially if he's never slept with you.
Just ring or text him, asking if he would like to do whatever activity of your choice.
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