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writes:My boyfriend of a year and a half,and i broke up. We broke up about 3 days ago. We went through each others phone and he saw my fb messages.where guys would hit on me and flirt and i would go along.i would always end up blocking them or cutting ties with them. So those men i didnt have contact w anymore.(still doesn't make it ok) i know i messed up he didnt talk to me for two days..and i tried to get some closure so since he said it was done. I took the things he bought me back to him.. like a tv and some more valuables. I left them at his doorstep. i didnt wanna make an appearance.. Now i regret what i did. i love him enough to let him go. Even though i didnt have sex with those men thought feel like its still considered cheating. And i was willing to leave and give him space and leave him alone. But he called and he's talking to me. Im afraid to get into this relationship again.. I dont feel like we can fix the trust issues.has anyone.gone thru this????? Help please
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (31 March 2014):
 To be honest I don't see what you did as a bad thing, Facebook and sites of it's kind are an open source. People post random bits of tat, they take funny pictures and post it.
Now, if you had intentionally decided to use it as a hookup site then yes that was wrong. Otherwise you are just messing around on a social media site.
I think too much stock is put in what would have been called Chinese Whispers back before social media.
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