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writes:I broke things off with my boyfriend because I just wanted to some space and time to heal (I had a rough year/stress). And he said that if should I be ready for a relationship, I can look him up. I finally texted him after a month of not texting, but I havent seen him since mid-August. Here our text convo:me: Hey hows it going?him: hey (name) its going. Got a ton **** of homework to do this weekend. How are you?me: Im good. I have a ton of hw too. Just wanted to see if you want to catch a movie this weekend.him: Maybe! If I have the time, I was planning on finally seeing Skyfall with a couple of friends of mine. Care to join? Or maybe you had a different movie in mind?me:I saw skyfall with my sister already. Its a great movie! I really liked it. I was thinking of a different movie, but skyfall is too awesome for you to miss out on!him: Hahahaha, so I hear! Im looking forward to it! But what were you thinking?me: I would love to see the Hobbit or cirque du soleil though ..maybe we can check out those. They don't come till late december though !him: Oh ****! thats right! forgot about the Hobbit! (not to mention LOTR again. I don't think I ever saw the last one from start to finish)Yea, I definitely want to see that. Yea we could check it out. When does it come out?me: I think late december!him: cool. If I forgot (which I probably will lol) remind me!me: okay(an hour later)me: Oh! and you never told me what happened to Yuna ? (from a game)him: hahaha oh yea! we never did finish that, did we? I cant just tell you what happens. you have to experience it yourself =Pme: lol, but i want to know. dont tell me she dies him: i will tell you nothing =Pme: aww thats unfair. i feel like its like reading a fantasy book but i never find out the ending.him: lol well maybe i'll have you over sometime so we can finish it?me: okay sounds good! goodnight Aaronhim: Night!Does he sound interested? He was flirting a bit and did say yes...but I dont know what to make of it. What do you guys think? Does he want me back? THanks in advance.
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reader, jfire86 +, writes (12 December 2012):
 It looks like a pretty common conversation between two friends, the fact that he invited you to his house (even if it's for a game) is promising. I would say that you will never truely know what he wants until you spend some time together. Text messages just have too many variables that cant be accounted for. Find a movie that comes out this coming weekend or is already out, go see that and then maybe you can schedule for another movie after christmas. Sounds like he's ready to get things rolling again, dont put it off and risk putting him off. Good luck!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (11 December 2012):
 Correction only he knows how he feels now. No one knows how he will feel in a month.
From the complete text of your conversation with him he appears to be willing to pick up right where you left off. He is encouraging further contact.
More than you had a right to expect. You should have been more positive about this weekend and less pushing off until after Christmas. You left him wondering if you are really anxious to see him.
For a text message it is pretty good communication. Time to move up to face to face or at least voice.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (11 December 2012):
 As much as i think i am awesome, i am not a mind reader! Neither is anyone else. We don't know this guy like you do, only you will know deep down how he potentially feels about you.
Reading through it, it just seems a friendly conversation to me. Maybe you will have a better idea of things when you go and 'catch a movie' together.
Just tread carefully, don't want to end up being hurt, or hurting someone else.
Good luck!
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