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female
age
30-35,
*hicachica
writes:I just started a new job where the building was having major renovations and met one of the guys doing it - he will not be working with me permanently. He is extremely attractive so naturally spent lots of time ogling him! Which seemed to be a mutual thing, eventually started talking/flirting and gave him my number, he did not get in touch, which is fine but I saw him again the following week and he accused me of playing games - in that I had not replied to his texts. Presumably I gave him an incorrect number to begin with, so tried again and we texted a little bit. Now hes stopped and I'm wondering if it would be very strange to call him and see whats up/ask him for a drink?I don't know him very well at all, but I don't think I've misread the signals etc - I just want to know what happened?!
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reader, Myau +, writes (12 December 2012):
 He isn't interested, but doesn't want to be rude. Take the hint already.
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (12 December 2012):
 Since when did giving out numbers mean or required asking anybody out. It's communication we do over the phone. I wouldnt say I havent but I don't believe that people ask people out on the phone. I thought they asked in person you know face to face contact.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 December 2012):
 He isn't really interested. He likes the random flirts but that is it - OR he would have asked you out already.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (11 December 2012):
 He doesnt seem interested OP and he didnt have the guts to tell you that, that's why he lied about the wrong number. Let him go. If he wants he can always get back to you. You've done your bit and its pretty obvious to him that you're interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2012): Just to add, I say all that OP because if you hand yourself to him on a plate and do all the work then he may well go along with it and you still won't be able to gauge whether he's truly interested, if he is he'll make his move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2012): I'd let it go, sounds like he's the one playing games. Look you gave him your number and he hasn't asked you out. You made the move and gave him your number the ball is in his court, you even gave it to him twice which is very clear you're interested and he just hasn't made a move. I say wait and see, but he doesn't sound all that pushed or he'd have asked out the so very obviously interested woman.
Wait, let him make his move and if he doesn't, then he's just not that into you.
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