A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Hello all I was just thinking of this guy that I have been knowing for two months already and we talk to one another from time to time but he is in a relationship.I like him but I am not a home wrecker.Could I be attracted to this guy knowing he is in a relationship he even tries to flirt on the low.I'm afraid that the flirting might turn into something else and I have been single for nine years to if you kno what I mean I don't want to do this .
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female
reader, AuntyEm +, writes (11 December 2012):
Four words:
Stay Away
Self Control
That should keep you out of trouble.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 December 2012):
Of course it's possible to be attracted to someone in a relationship. It's also possible to be attracted to someone when you are in a relationship with someone else.
We are higher level mammals however, and therefore we are in total control of what we choose to do with these feelings.
IF you are afraid of being weak around this man, then stop the flirting.
I can tell you that I am a very taken woman AND an outrageous flirt. I make no bones about either.... so men I flirt with know that it's just fun and games...
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