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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: We're both 30 and newly started dating and I think he is perfect... for the most part anyway. He showed me a collection of photos of near-naked celebrities. It's so disturbing, it's making me insecure cuz he admitted that he's obsessed with nice bodies. He also talks about girls who like him (he doesn't talk about his exes or anything) and talks about hot girls. And then we got into the topic of being unfaithful to partners and asked me if I'm ever the type to forgive these sorts of people. Why is he doing this to me? Why do guys like him even exist? Should I go on about my exes who were obviously more human than he is? I've never met anyone being so straightforward about their perviness. It's p!ssing me off. Of course I dumped him already but I just don't get it? What was the point of all of that bullsht?
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reader, Ciar +, writes (26 August 2012):
I second BondGirl's answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): Thanks, I totally agree with you "Anonymous Reader." I think he was just trying to see if I'm into the same sort of thing he's into.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2012): It sounds like he was testing you to see how much you can handle. My bf did this to me when we first me and it pissed me the hell off! I made it clear to him that I didn't like his idea of him wanting a threesome some day, talking about hot celebs, watching dirty movies ect...
One day you will meet a guy that will value your thoughts and feelings. He won't make you feel bad about yourself & respect you. Don't settle for less than that :) After all, when it comes down to it? WOMEN ARE AWESOME & WE RULE!! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2012): I think he's just into swinging and wanted to know if you were too. I would say you're not and so it's good you ended it.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (25 August 2012):
You will never understand some people, so don't attempt to try. If you don't like someone's values, you do just what you did and move on. Don't waste your time and energy even trying to analyze him or his situation.
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