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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Theres this guy i like and we're really good friends but i think of him as more, we're close and he asks me for advice on girls all teh time, theres barely anything we don't tell each other, Lately we've got closer and spent way more time together but all of sudden we're really distant he barely talks to me almost like he's embarrassed. It's really confusing what have i done wrong? HELP! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, shiraz +, writes (31 August 2008):
hiyah, it seems to me like this guy has realised theres more to your frindship too and its scared him so hes backed off. hes so used to being able to confide in you etc but now hes seen you in a new light it makes it different. you need to talk to him ask him how hes feeling and where your frindship is to go from here. you do need to be aware though frindships do change espically between boys and girls and if theres more to it then sometimes they never return to how they were, if you sort it in the early stages hopefully you wont have this poblem. be honest and open with him saying how you want to remain friends whatever happens
good luck-hpe this has helpped and hope it all goes ok :)
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