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anonymous
writes:Haven't had a girlfriend since March, been looking since with no luck. Also, i'm not used to this, before then i was basically never single for 2 or 3 years. It's been so long now and i don't really have any confidence anymore, i haven't got any single friends that are girls either. I need to meet some new people, sometimes i see really pretty girls in shopping malls and i want to talk to them to see if they're cool too but i don't know what to say. As i said earlier, i don't have much confidence anymore.Feel like such a loser doing this but im way too tired of being alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): Oh dear, have you moved out of your parents home ? If so, then you truly are alone, if not .. stop IT ! you're not alone !. You know what Phil Collins say " You can't hurry love !" It'll come when you least expect it.
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reader, graciie; +, writes (1 September 2008):
dude, calm down,
having a girl on your arm isnt everything ya'know?
if you girl you might as well talk to them,
havent got much to loose,
just if you do get turned down, its about 10 miniutes on embarssment, if you don't then you have gained someone ya'know?
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reader, iluvmybodyasitis25  +, writes (1 September 2008):
aww im 13 and i havent had a boyfriend in 13 years well there was this 1 guy but he wasnt really my boyfriend but if i waited 13 year im sure u can wait a lil longer ...lol...u can do it and ur not a loser i would be flattered if a boy talked to me in a shopping mall so just go for it babe (: well of course im holier than now and took a vow of abstinance so i dobt people would date me but if u want u could always messagwe me (:
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (1 September 2008):
 At your age a six month drought seems disastrous but is not really all that uncommon. You've apparently burned through the reservoir of your immediate circle of girls that you know well. So it's time that you got out and met some new people.
To do that you are going to have to start moving in a different crowd than you have before. This is often somewhat difficult in your teens, but it can be done. Find something you like to do, and join a group of people who you do NOT know that are doing it. In any community there are always youth groups participating in all sorts of worthwhile and interesting projects and activities. Everything from book clubs to community service projects to physical fitness programs and the list just goes on. Somewhere you can find something that you can do to expand your circle to include new people. Establish yourself as a fixture in such a new group and that will open up new horizons with new possibilities for new connections.
Making those new connections, of course, is the next step.
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