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writes:Doese anyone know a way to make your self more sensitive or easyier to come quicker during sex, basically i have too much stamina , where as most guys would probably think its a great thing, its becomeing a real pain in the ass during sex, i could probably go for hours if it came to it, but when im with a girl, my ex and my new girl ,theyl come like 2 or three times before im done and in the end we have to stop coz theyve had enough but im left unstatishfied most of the time, when i was younger(in my teens) i used to practice alot shall we say lol and think ive maybe built up too much endurance from it or somthing, i come easyier when im on my own than i do when im actually doing it,this is not a wind up it a real problem.any tips would be appreciated,
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 September 2008):
I guess your age is wrong and you are not really 10 hahah.
It could be that your "practising" has desensitised you.
So I'm going to give you the advice they give to women...
Find out what gets you really really turned on and then do that as foreplay for a bit before you get to the main event. Have oral sex first, use icecubes to get all the blood flowing to the surface and get you super sensitive, then go for it.
They also advice women who can't have an orgasm during sex to have one during foreplay, and then if you don't during sex then you are already happy and satisfied.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Yup, its a real problem. You're a little young for it. Google "retarded ejaculation", there is plenty of information out there. Unfortunately there seem to be no quick fixes.I've had the same problem myself and I agree with you that it seems like it would be a good problem to have but its not funny when after an hour or so you have to say "forget it, let's go for lunch". The key seems to be, not to obsess about it, try not even to think about it, perhaps be a little bit selfish in terms of not thinking too much about your partner's satisfaction (generally that's a good thing of course but not in this situation), introduce as much novelty as you can and don't "practice".
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): I'm the original posteri got the age wrong btw lol didnt fill it in proply, im actually 20 not 10 haha
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